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My DB and I are having time apart. Right now he is over here collecting things to set up his BD new room where he is staying. I'm not sure whats going to happen with us, if we will work it out or if its really over. Our biggest problems are around the way i deal with issues that arise in regards to the BM and the BD. I find it really hard not to get upset and then angry towards him even thought i know its not his fault. Right now he is walking past the window carrying her things to his van... My heart is screaming and its taking all my power not to cry and beg him to stay.
Remember guys, he's been out of work since JUNE. Today he got mad at me for calling him @ 3:30 because I was interrupting his NAP. While I'm at work BUSTING MY BUTT.
So BM calls my cell phone, this is her only way to contact me because I cut off email and dont answer the house phone if its her on caller id. I answered because the SD17 was with her this weekend. BM seems genuine but says she has seen the light as far as SD17 is concerned and doesnt know how I have put up with her all these years. BM is tired of SD17's attitude at her house, her sense of entitlment and disrespect. :O Gee...welcome to my world!
The one thing that bothers me with issues that go on with BM is the fact that my DBF's family has involved themselves in the drama to say the least. Here's a glossary of people involved:
Nutty McDougal - BM
Jezebel - DBF's 3rd cousin, best friend with Nutty McD. & sleeps with married men!
Bowl Cut - Jezebel's loud obnoxious mother, DBF's 2nd cousin
Dry Curl - Bowl Cut's bother/Jezebel's uncle who I think does the *wink wink* with Nutty McDougal
Dazed - Bowl Cut's younger sister/Jezebel's aunt & Nutty McDougal's former college advisor.
Recently BM sent DH an email and a text message regarding me signing SD6 homework. DH ignored the first email and (because we have been through a lot with BM) broke down after the text message. I took it upon myself to call BM and ask her why it is so important that I NOT sign homework. Her answer: I don’t know why it bothers me so much. We had a conversation for about an hour. I got off the phone thinking we had resolved this issue…that as long as it wasn’t permission slips for field trips or medical records it was not big deal for me to sign. So, I continued signing.
did anyone see in the news that they were divorcing agter 15 months of marriage. The article I read said his adult kids were the cause.
After my last blog about my situation over a week ago, things have sort of been getting better. Well, after I completely lost it first!
I have been with my partner for 18months. He is the primary carer for his four year old daughter, she is beautiful and I have a very good relationship with her. I love them both very much. I have four great kids twin boys aged 18. My daughter who is 13 and my son who is 9. I would like for us all to become a family one day but recently we went on holiday together and he only took photographs of his daughter even if we were all together having a meal or something as a group he would zoom in on his daughter, so that no one else would be in the photograph.
Heres an update from my previous post about BM calling CPS on us...
Well, have just finished a whole weekend with SS staying with us, and generally went OK, apart from a few little annoyances...
It's his 10th birthday in a couple of weeks, and BM has arranged his birthday party for a weekend we're supposed to have him (to include a sleepover at her house). She also told him that both his dad & I would be coming along in the afternoon when they go bowling, without asking either of us!
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