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SS4 Really Behind on EVERYTHING.

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ok, so my SS is 4. he lives with BM, she does jack-shit for him. BM's mom watches him, and she babies him to death. He is STILL not potty trained, cant talk(DH and I finally enrolled him in speech therapy), and he is very stubborn with everything he eats-- all he wants to eat is crap. but i guess....

anyway, i have an almost 2 yr old BD. she is potty training already --she saw us stress it so much to SS now that hes been with us this month, that she started telling me she needed to go on her own! so im rolling with it.

I MISSED EVERYONE!

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Hello EVERYONE! I havent been on here in sooo long. Ive been so busy- kids, work, baby-momma drama! but I just want to say, I missed being on here. I started reading some posts- some new people, some veterans, and this is the best site ever! I always leave this site feeling a little less alone in this world! I really have no drama, i just wanted to tell everyone how amazing you make this site with all of your commentary! I will be on more often ( shame on me for ever leaving! not that anyone missed me!), and have a wonderful day!

is he going to cheat on me?

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I am having trust issues with DH. DH met me while he was with BM. He cheated on her with me (just emotionally, but still, thats cheating), and when he wanted more, i told him he had to leave her to be with me. He immediately did-- like the night i told him, and weve been together ever since.

This may sound dumb, but we were talking about the whole Tiger Woods cheating thing yesterday, and I mentioned how shocked I was that he cheated, and how i wouldntve imagine him as the type. I then told him, "That's why I dont trust men, and thats why I will always stalk you."

BIG step for BM, Still surprised....

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Ok this weekend we had SS (our visitations wkend), and BM was not going to be able to have him for Halloween at all, since visitation starts Friday at 6, end Sunday at 6. She let us have SS the previous wkend for my BD's bday, but she wanted us to let her have him this last Friday so she could take him trick or treating.

Does it ever feel Like a Contest to You with BM?

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This may have been asked MANY times on ST before, im sure.
Do you ever feel like its a competition between you and BM?

It may be that Im just a competitive person by nature, or that she just doesnt seem to let it go that I have what she wanted, but I always feel like were competing.

I wonder if it will ever get to her and I being civil, since its only been 3 yrs that weve started this blended family, and she hasnt found anyone to occupy her time on, and apparently her son isnt worth her time, so she wastes it trying to mess with us.

BDs 1st BDAY is coming, and were afraid BM wont let us have SS

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weve been going by court orders since DH called the cops to file a report that BM wouldnt answer phone/door when we would try to drop off ss after a week of having him. She flipped and is going by court order now which means we get him every other weekend and 2 hrs every thursday.
She called cps on us, we called on her, we got cleared, shes still getting investigated... trying to summarize and say enough to get help...

she included my daughter in her cps report saying that we left her with MIL(who is a known drug user) when we would never do that.

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