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BM CALLED CPS ON THIS?

Mommywood's picture

Heres an update from my previous post about BM calling CPS on us...

CPS said they would come Saturday and they never showed up. We called n the stupid worker wouldnt answer her cell. The Case Wkr says she got the report in august (the day after we called the cops on BM for not wanting to take SS from us). funny huh? and she didnt even put her name on it, she used a friend to do it. turns out her claim was "negligent supervision." You see I was in the hospital for 2 wks in august, and during that time we had SS 1 day (we told her we wouldnt be taking him anymore for a couple of weeks till I got out). She claims that we left him and my daughter with my mother in law (who is a known drug user with CPS- they took MIL's kids away). I love my MIL, shes always been good to my kids, but I know her and her past, and for that reason,i would never leave my Kids there. SS stayed with DH that ONE day and my BD stayed with MY parents the rest of the time. So niether one ever set foot in MIL's house. BM made that up supposing that since I was in the hospital and my DH was with me, we left the kids there, and since she knows MIL's history, she found that to make up on us.
My husband and I have pics of my daughter at my parents house while I was in the hospital(my mom would txt me pics while I was in the hospital so I wouldnt miss her so much), and the daycare should have a log stating that THEY are the ones that signed him in and out because we didnt have him during that time.

It just angers me that she would do that and stoop to that. Weve had so many chances to call CPS on her and never had the guts to so I wouldnt escalate to this... but I guess. Hopefully shes digging her own grave!

Im still worried though, and it makes me wonder how far shes gonna drag this on...

I had previously told everyone on here that I made a report against her after i found out in anger...
well I told them EVERYTHING..
from her assaulting me in front of SD and BD, her not wanting to take him from us and hiding, her mom sigining a release at daycare stating that the scratches that he showed up with one day came from their household and not the daycare. She also left ss with 9 yr old neice when he was 1 1/2, and my hubby went to pick him up-- WE LET THAT SLIDE!!
and i also kinda said she might be abusing alcohol cause were always getting told shes seen out partying and drinking with her friends and we got pics from her myspace to show... how much wil all this bear weight against her??
I mean i felt bad doing it after I sent it, but after I heard she involved MY daughter who has nothing to do with ANYTHING, im gonna go APE SHIT on her. I was also thinking of messing with her housing (i think she gets more assistance than she needs and doesnt report her updated income) who would I report that to?? I looked around online and couldnt find anything, i live in tx so if anyone knows, please let me know!

Im on a rampage now... she wanted to throw my daughter into this... i have no more limits...

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stepoff's picture

I think you need to back off of reporting her any more out of spite. The more you do this in anger, the longer it will drag out. Just leave well enough alone. When her report of neglect is found to be untrue, you will be in the clear and all will be done. Don't stoop to her level. Bitterness will get you nowhere.

Mommywood's picture

youre right. I get rages of anger where im all eff her... ill do everything i can do bring her down, and then I think that her life sucks, and shes already paying a hefty price by being alone and apparently having nothing else to think about but messing with us. I do need to just let her get what she deserves, because god works in mysterious ways, and shes already living her own hell. sorry if i came off so angry in my rant. I needed to vent that.

stepoff's picture

That's what the site is for. But you're right. She's obviously miserable and looking for a way to get one over on you and DH. Let her get it out of her system and just know in your own mind that she's just doing it because she's an unhappy person. Take pity, not revenge.

BMJen's picture

I guess she didn't have anything better to do than to sit around and play with CPS. I can't believe (actually I can) that she is the type of parent that she is but still has the nerve to call CPS on you guys.

It's just ridiculous what some BM's will go through to cause stress in the family isn't it?

PnutButta's picture

It sucks when BM's can't leave our children alone, doesn't it?

CPS has no basis for an investigation. That's probably why they didn't even bother showing. It's nice that there are really children out there that desperately need help, but your BM decides to use them as a tool to get control of you guys and make you nuts.

Your BM is filth. I hope Karma comes and bites her on the ass. I have zero respect for people that do that sort of thing.

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