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Submitted by RockyRoads on Tue, 11/19/2024 - 7:15pm

Things have been going really good. SD showed her true colors and  SO finally decided to leave me alone about not wanting to do anything with or for his kids. I have let him go thru football season going to partial football games on Friday nights (because SS is JV and doesn't really play) and going to all Saturday morning games without causing a fuss because I wasn't even asked to go.                                      

Update and realization

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Submitted by RockyRoads on Sat, 09/14/2024 - 1:33pm

So last night was horrible for SO.  I did cave in and go to the pre dinner. SO pleased to not make him go alone.  I am glad i went.  SDs  step dad was dressed up so we knew he would also be walking. SD never told SO that  her stepdad was still going to do this. Even though my SO had asked if it was just him and BM several times. Each girl had pictures of growing up and SO was not in one of them.  Her step dad and step brothers were in several. My SO almost broke down he was so upset. I didn't go to the game but watched it live stream.

Seriously, open up your eyes

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Submitted by RockyRoads on Wed, 09/11/2024 - 4:44pm

I am wondering what is going to happen this weekend when I don't go to senior night. I have toured several apartments and townhomes. I am sure it is going to get ugly. But anyway today SO wanted to pick up SS from practice because he hasn't seen him. That is not an issue but the issue is that SS said I will let you pick me up if you take me to the store and buy me(and it is something for sports , I am not sure ) because I stopped listening. So now in order for your dad to see you he has to buy you something. My goodness. Time for me to buy something for myself on his card.

He will never stop

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Submitted by RockyRoads on Sun, 09/01/2024 - 7:20pm

You all know that SD does not want SO to walk with hwr in Senior night. I don't know where that stands at this point. But SO gets a text from BM about the senior cheerleaders having a dinner for them and the parents before the game. I have been told by SO I have to go with him.  I told him no. He of course isn't taking no for an answer and has ordered the tickets.  He said I have to do this for him and SD.  What type of abuse is this that he isn't respecting me.  

Am I overly sensitive

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Submitted by RockyRoads on Sat, 08/24/2024 - 2:12pm

I need to know if I am just being over sensitive?  Against my wishes because there has been issues in the past ,SO had SD stay to watch the pets while we were away.She will be 18 in a few months.  She had several issues the first few days and bothered SO about it. One was that our youngest cat was missing.  Cats will hide for hours . But  I find out that SD called BM to help her look for the cat. I feel violated and have told SO he has to have a talk with SD.  I don't want BM in the house unless it is a life or death situation. Am I over reacting?

Vacation coming to an end

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Submitted by RockyRoads on Fri, 08/23/2024 - 12:05pm

SO and I have been on vacation for a week and it has been pretty great. Only a few hiccups in the beginning because he insisted SD pet sit and she was having some issues . Well yes because we need a professional who cares about the pets to watch them. But it didn't take up too much of our time and SO was upset with how SD was handling it but I told him there is nothing we can do at this point.  But now we will be heading back to reality where I am sure he will start on me again about going to all of his kids things.

My disengaging that is not working

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Submitted by RockyRoads on Fri, 08/09/2024 - 3:22pm

I have to  tell someone this because I need it off of my mind. SO will not let me be about not wanting to be involved with his kids right now. He pleaded with SD to go out to dinner this weekend and she finally said she will try. Not even a yes. He told me I have to go. Yes it  became an argument. Then he tells me that I need to pick a day to volunteer at a game for SS. I told him I said I was done going to any games.  He said he will show me the dates I can choose from. I said did you not hear me I am not doing that. He said it can wait a few days before I decide what night. Ugh.

Update on SKs on vacation.

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Submitted by RockyRoads on Sun, 08/04/2024 - 5:36pm

They are home. SO asked them yesterday to go to eat with him for his birthday. They said no. Today he asked them to come down to have some food on the grill they said no. SS then called and asked to be taken somewhere and SO stopped what he was doing and did it.  He said this it not how I wanted to be able to see SS but what can he do. He said this is how it works for a divorced dad. I am sad for him and I am so angry at him for how he acts. 

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