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Submitted by RockyRoads on Fri, 02/07/2025 - 7:56pm

SS isn't staying tonight.  He was going to be out with his friends until 10.  And yes I know that is normal, but the kid said he wanted to spend time with SO and when they made the arrangements he said he wouldn't go out with his friends he was coming here.  It was not to just shower and sleep.  SO told him no. I was shocked but SO had told me earlier in the day that if this happened he would tell him no.  He almost gave in to SS.  But of course he said that they can try again another night.  And we did find out from SD that he is trying to avoid BM.  Not that this changes how upset I am.

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Submitted by ESMOD on Mon, 02/10/2025 - 7:45am

I'm a bit shocked that her DH held his ground on the kid not coming if he was going out with friends....lol.

In the end.. RR, your husband DID hold his ground.. and he should get credit for that.

The problem is you are still left with a man who uses you as an emotional punching ground.. that has mental issues that make your life hell.   At what point are you going to see that this can't work long term.. and this has absolutely ZERO to do with his kids.. your problems start with the guy you share your bed with.

I have followed your posts for a long time.. and you have become more and more distraught over this situation.. even small things seem to become mountains for you... and it has to be the result of living with a man that is beating you down emotionally... I hope you can figure out a way to escape... because I don't think he is in any way inclined to change.. or promote you from whipping dog.