This is silly but I bought some books about stepparenting and for some strange reason, I hide them so my husband doesn't see me reading it or that I have it. Is anyone else doing the same? I don't know why I do that. Just wondering if anyone else does this?

Something bothered me the other night when my new husband and I were looking at our wedding pics online. We were snuggled up on the couch, looking at the photos together and having a great time remembering our big day last month. Then he came across the ones with his little boy in them and became like a man possessed, trying to find ALL of the ones with SS in them. He was happy looking at our pictures, but 10 times happier seeing the ones of SS. I felt kinda shoved aside. How could I say anything without seeming jealous of a child?!

So my husband and I normally get his kids every Thursday night and keep them over night and then take them to school, or back to where ever on Friday or keep them unitl she gets home. It has been this wasy for 4 years. So last night comes, my husband calls her 4 times, (4 on her cell, 4 at her home) no answer, we call the SS's cell phone, no answer, we call the biomom's parents, no answer. He left messages and still no call. So my question how do we get her in trouble.

Well, I am still upset with the ongoing blog issue stuff going on with my estranged SD. She has made an entire additional post and is now blaming me that we moved away, she will never apologize to me, and wrote that I should basically f^^%$$ off and she wishes I were six feet under, but she would apologize to her Dad and forgive him, because she loves him. Then she wrote on her blog in big bold letters that I am an internet stalker and can be likened to a pedophile. She also says I should call her and talk to her, she is not afraid of me, or I should write her a letter.