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Standing My Ground

smcpaw's picture

Well not much to report other than nothing much has happened. My boyfriend has been very withdrawn, his daughter and I had a few words because she tried to tell me that my daughter was mad at her dad for taking her car and bringing his daugther to school - I then set her straight and told her that my daughter was mad because her father blames her for his daughter sneaking out and that I was furious with her because she hasn't been held accountable for sneaking out and everyone else has suffered except her - her response was that she can't see her boyfriend anymore - boo hoo - she woke her grandparents up, had her parents and I frantically worrying and looking for her at 1:30-2:00 a.m., my daughter got blamed because she knew his daughter was sneaking out and the only thing she is upset about is she can't see the boyfriend anymore. My boyfriend doesn't discuss it with me and has been really quiet since. We haven't heard from the biomom since the episode and my daughter feels like she is the only one that is being punished. My boyfriend and I usually discuss everything, but now it seems he doesn't want my opinion. My daughter asked if a friend could spend the night the other night and normally I would check with him - I didn't. I feel if he doesn't want to let me help him with his daughter, I shouldn't have to consult with him concerning mine. I know that isn't the way it was or should be, but I have to take a stand. What is good for the goose, should be good for the gander. I only hope his daughter returns to the biomom soon. But, then again, no recourse when doing something wrong, she probably won't ever leave!

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lovin-life's picture

I hope this blows over without causing too much turmoil for you & your husband. Having SD here for that 1 yr caused much stress & put some distance between us for awhile. Things returned to normal after she moved out on her own. Ride through the rough patches..she won't be under your roof forever!