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For those who dont know the abbreviation above...Physco Ex Wife.
Heres a way we stopped the ex wife to stop harassing with text messages.
She would send us a message, and we would reply....."The customer you are trying to contact, is not accepting text messages. Thank you for choosing Rogers.
We did this a few times, just so she would think it was real
LOL
She fell for it! and the text messages stopped.
I just don't understand..my BF exwife has no drivers license and is on siezure medication..she doesn't work and draws disability..she lives with her BF and he is gone all day at work that is at least an hours drive away from home and she can't drive at all..she is at home with my SS who is 4 and what if she goes into a siezure or something..they live in the back of an RV/Mobile Home park and what will happen if something goes wrong and he doesn't know how to get help..I just don't get it and no one can answer it..I do know that the custody part was taken care of before the divorce since she
I swear the BM wants to drive me to be as crazy as she is!
I've been off of work the last month and have been spening the extra time with my kids over the holidays until I started my new job this week. Being home and dealing with the BM's emails and conduct is really driving me crazy!
I try to be nice and nice and spew out more niceness....but get slammed back with sarcasm, and continued knocks again me, my husband and anything that that we do.
I just don't get how a person can be so mean and want to be so negative all the time and about everything.
So, remember over Christmas visitation, when BM spent so much time emailing us and calling us that we could barely have a good time together? Well, this offended BF's mother so much that she decided to give BM's mother a call. So BF's mother called BM's mother and let her know exactly what was going on and that BM needed to back off and realize what she's doing.
Dh never heard back from the ex all day yesterday about our wanting t o know how much 9 year old's braces were going to cost. We had the boys for dinner last night & when DH dropped them off she stood in the doorway of house ( DH stays in car, unlike her who feels she needs to come in our home daily when she picks up the kids.
This is going to be VERY long, but all needs to be said in order to get help! Here goes.....
BACKGROUND::::::
I am new to this site and it is wonderful! I am both a Biomom and Stepmom. My story is similar to many on here yet a little different...I married a wonderful man about a year ago. I have a BD who is 13(no ex to deal with, no custody exchanges). My DH has 2 BD's (5 & 9) and has primary custody so SDs primarily live w/us. Yes - I am a Newlywed (never married before), Stepmom and Biomom and had to get used to living with DH, SDs and blending in BD. Hard work!
So we finally found out that BM made SD an appointment for an evaluation at the clinic where she would attend day therapy from 9am-3pm Monday-Friday. Although I strongly feel I should be there, my fiance and I decided that the potential fall-out from BM would not be worth it. He will attend the evaluation with them and hopefully BM will not throw a fit about it. (She will definitely throw a fit if I dare show up.)
For a few weeks now, bm and I have been discussing ss returning to live with us full time. Now that she is back with her bf, and having to commute a ridiculous amount of traveling for her son to live with her, and attend school in our district, she now thinks it's in his bests interest for him to live with us. It's a different story when she is single...if/when she breaks up with bf, she will run right to ss and say "you can move in with me..." underminding all of our hard work.
How many of you have pictures up of the birthparents(birthmother or birthfather) in your homes?
When I seperated from my XH, I put up a picture of my daughter and her father together in her room. On one side was their picture and on the other side was a picture of her and I. Both pictures were above her headboard and seperated by a picture of her guardian angel. This has been like this for the last 4 years and in every house and/or apartment we lived in.
There are no pictures of me and my daughter at his house.
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