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I guess is was partially our fault but it was horrible none-the-less. We looked at the holiday schedule and it seemed to say that stepson would be at our house for New Year's Eve. Stepson swore he was at his mom's house last year. We didn't hear form biomom about picking stepson up on Sat. night when he would have been picked up if she had him for New Year's Eve so we thought we were good to go.
I would just like to hear from some of you where your current relationship, or marriage, was conceived through an affair. I guess what I really need is to know what happened? Was it something that was gradual? Or was it a slow process? Do any of you really know or understand it?
Now what to do with those lopsided pictures.. You know the ones that used to be the happy twosome pictures...evenly centered before, but now are oddly tipping the scale to one side...
Those predivorce photos can get me everytime.
It seemed to be a happier time when the world seemed right...I didn't feel so incorrect and misplaced. My day had an agenda and I didn't question the hours filled with mindless routine.
Thank god I found this site...., My husband & I have been married for 2 years now, and his EX has done everything she can to make life hell for us. At first I was surprised, cause they were over long before I came along. He has 2 children with her, and I have 2 with my EX, and we just had a baby together. His EX is very unstable, she is an alcoholic, and is court ordered to go to AA, and recieve outside counseling for her 'anger issues". My husband got custody of his 13 year old son this summer, so he lives with us,and is now happy & thriving.
I have to tell you guys this...
It's my x's weekend with the kids....but surprise, surprise they are with me.
He told me that he was leaving to go out of town on the 27th and that it was up the the kids if they wanted to go with him or stay in town. They hate the long drive and just figured Dad would be going out 'partying'...when down there. They'd prefer 'checking out Christmas stuff with freinds'...etc than driving 5 hours and sit around a house while Dad goes out with HIS friends...perfectly understandable..so they stayed here with us!
BM asked BF if we could keep SS next weekend, possibly overnight, because she has plans. After all the horror that she caused not even five days ago over this very subject, I'm perplexed as to why she'd ask us to keep him for an additional overnight the following weekend. Usually she would just have her parents watch SS. I haven't heard so much as a word from her since all the trauma she caused over Christmas visitation. Do you think maybe she's taken the last few days to think about what she did and realize that she went about things completely wrong and that things need to change?
Countdown to 'hanging out' with hubbys x and mini-her.... 2 1/2 hours...
I just got out of the shower and have started some SERIOUS PRIMPING.... I'll be looking 'hot'!!
I've been signing & humming 'old macDonald had a farm'......all day. Hubby joins in for the 'cow' & 'pig' part of the song...those are just a couple of his 'pet names' for his charming ex.....
SO we're all in a great mood....looking forward to getting this over with...its' good practice for all the 'socializing' we'll have to do with her this summer.....
Well, I guess the "evil" step-mom had struck again it seems. Or at least that is what my SD has told her father. She called him yesterday to inform him that she was no longer a part of our lives. It's all my fault and in her words I got what I always wanted. It amazes me that someone can put the blame on me when she is the one who has had nothing at all to do with this family since having us thrown in jail and not speaking to anyone in over a year, steps back in one day and expects things to be like nothing every happened.
Most of us have our own personal resolutions, but do you have any resolutions that relate to step or blended family life? Possibly something to do with the ex or the skids? Maybe something that you personally want to work on within yourself that relates? Or perhaps something that you think could use some work between you and your spouse?