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I think SD15 moved out for good

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Submitted by Dogmom1321 on Tue, 06/24/2025 - 6:50am

Backstory: SD15 lives with us the majority of the time. Technically it's 50/50, but BM moved to a different town in 2020 & DH never got the CO updated. SD attended the high school in our neighborhood and would see BM on the weekends only (and sometimes not even every weekend). No child support on either side. Something else DH never got updated. 

Fast forward: DH has been having his fair share of issues with SD over the last couple of years, but REALLY ramped up recently. Accusing me of stealing, calling DH a deadbeat, taking alcohol, sneaking out at night, etc. 

Rollercoaster of SD15

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Submitted by Dogmom1321 on Wed, 05/21/2025 - 10:29am

The manipulation and roller coaster of emotions SD15 continues to cause in our household is exhausting. Two weeks ago she got into a huge argument with DH and listed basically all of the things she does not like about me, DH, and our household. Too many to list here. I think part of her did make DH feel guilty to some degree. I think DH is at his wit's end.

SD14 Just a Terrible Person - Ignores Everyone

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Submitted by Dogmom1321 on Thu, 04/10/2025 - 10:55am

It was BS birthday party last weekend. He was turning 4. DH's parents traveled about 5/6 hours to come to his birthday party on Saturday. DH let SD14 know ahead of time that family was coming to visit. Her response was "Well, I was planning on going to my Mom's."  DH proceeded to explain how far they are traveling, haven't seen them in a year, etc. SD14 eventually folded and she stayed at our house last weekend instead of going to BMs. 

Friday night rolls around and SD14 had a decent conversation with the grandparents for about 30 minutes. 

Random text from SD14

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Submitted by Dogmom1321 on Wed, 03/19/2025 - 9:47am

I have been totally disengaged from SD14 for several years now. Not even a simple greeting or eye contact when she is physically present. Shno longer asks for rides, buying things, etc. 

SD14 sends me a text out of the blue yesterday. "I left a trash bag on the porch. I'll get it when I come back." 

I still had her contact saved in my phone. The last text I saw was 2022. 3 years ago! No happy birthdays, Merry Christmases or anything inbetween. But she randomly texts me about a trash bag???

Resentment is growing for Disney Dad

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Submitted by Dogmom1321 on Mon, 02/17/2025 - 10:15am

SD14 is awful & DH refuses to have a conversation with me about it. (failing grades, disgusting room, disrespect, etc.) He somehow is able to vent to his brother, father, and mother (says the things SD is being difficult with, etc). But if SD14 is ever brought up with ME then DH immediately gets defensive. I am OVER it. 

I outright told him yesterday that he treats SD14 differently. He is so blind he doesn't even see it. It came up because of this:

Toxic SD14 attempts to ruin Christmas Eve

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Submitted by Dogmom1321 on Tue, 12/24/2024 - 3:46pm

SD14 and DH had an argument last Friday. It was the last day of school before winter break. She woke up begging DH for "1 more hour of sleep" because she was up all night studying. Fine. An hour goes by and SD14 starts bawling her eyes out to DH of how tired she is because she was "studying". DH said she has D's and F's and can't afford to skip school. SD14 just keeps crying and he finally threw his hands up. Said she needed to call her friend to tell her she is not carpooling in the morning and also needs to call BM so she knows to pick her up from our house and not school. 

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