Any New Years resolutions (step related or otherwise) anyone would like to share?

Mine: To completely ignore BM.

I've been disengaged from SD13 for a while and had little to zero interaction with BM the last couple of years. She recently "announced" a new pregnancy and I found myself curious/puzzled about BMs situation when SD has brought it up. 

SD13 is so two faced! She has always been manipulative and it has just gotten worse as she has gotten older. And I must admit, I almost fall for it sometimes. 

Over dinner last night, SD13 proceeds to bring up BM and says how she can't stand her. She gets on her nerves. Doesn't want to live with her etc. I totally ignore the comments. DH sometimes plays into it but last night he didn't respond with anything either, just moved the conversation on. 

I'm getting ready to make dinner.. open the freezer to find SD13 skin/facial tools in the freezer. One of those face roller things. Well I'm getting stuff out and it falls down onto another shelf. I just left it there. 
 

SD comes downstairs and starts rummaging through the freezer. Told her the skincare fell and on a different shelf. She seemed annoyed that her personal items, that were put in a common place, had moved. 
 

My parents came in town last Friday to babysit DS2 while DH and I went to a concert. I ordered my parents Chipotle to be delivered so they would not have to worry about making dinner and also a thank you for babysitting. SD13 was also at our house so I asked her if she wanted me to order her dinner too. I typically would not order her food too, but would have felt bad if I didn't.