Put a wbcam ouside of her window so when she opens it and vapes/smokes you can put the footage up in the evening for shit kid viewing time with the rest of the family. See how daddy address her lies and crap.

Of course put the camera at an angle that can't see into her room but catches a full fiew of the window opening.

While you are at it, put web cams everywhere in the common areas of the home and that covers her door, windows, the bathroom doors and windows, etc, etc,.... this kid is not worthy of trust so own her ass with video and give daddy clarity.

smh

.... available at your local drugstore. Don't warn before you drug-test; they get "clean" friends to pee in a ziplock so they can cheat the test & continue lying.

/ask me how I know

Normal smoking or vaping.  Part of parenting is to know your kid is going to try smoking/ vaping drinking. Drugs.  You just hope that they just try them.  Not yo say you don't have house rules. Like no smoking in the house.  No drinking in the house. No boys in her room with the door closed.  Two 13 yo in a room with a close door may give you bigger worries.. have you had the birth control talk. It's need to be done soon 

At 13, i wonder how she gets the money for vapes/cigs/drugs. Not giving her cash along with testing and randomly "tossing" her room are the best option. If BM or others give her cash, not much you can do about that. But those are expensive vices, and people don't just give them to kids for free, at least not in large amounts.

Funny story, just before Christmas my son (away at school) called and asked me to look in my youngest's room to see if they had a certain Lego set. I didn't find the set but i did find a vape pen. I confronted my youngest about it and at first they lied and said it was a friend's. My kid and the friend are both 18 and can legally buy vapes here. I said the friend needs to worry about lung damage and cancer, heart disease risk, stroke risk, and could even lose a limb like their grandfather on their dad's side. This resonated because my kid saw the leg before and after amputation and it was gruesome, and he is a heavy nicotine user. My kid then admitted it was theirs, but said they only tried it a few times and this was several years ago. I said i hope that is true. At 18 and soon to be in college, i can toss the stuff now, but they will have to make their own choices once they move out. I hope they listen. It's their body and health. 

You should remember your child hood.   Kids will be kids.  You just hope they get by with out getting hurt. Smoking isn't the top thing I would worry about.   But it's time to remind them. That it's yours house, you pay the bills. They follow your rules .  Until they move out pay there own rent. And can make there own house rules