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SD12 is ALWAYS miserable

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Submitted by Dogmom1321 on Sat, 07/30/2022 - 8:57am

I've posted on here a lot about how DH's relationship with SD12 is pretty strained. She doesn't want to come to our house. Caught text messages and social media posts about how she 'hates us' etc. DH is aware of all of this and said he has been trying to make a concious effort to spend more time with SD12. 

Beyond Frustrated with DH

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Submitted by Dogmom1321 on Fri, 07/15/2022 - 12:31pm

DH has 50/50 with BM. SD12 goes to the middle school in our neighborhood per CO. This past school year was terrible. Bullying (on her part too), poor grades, attendance issues etc. 

BM lives 30 - 45 minutes away... because of this BM would typically give up majority of weekdays so she wouldn't have to drive SD12 to school. Nothing consistent. Everything was last minute. For example she would text DH. "I know it's my week, but I need SD to catch the bus to your house. Can't pick her up from school today." 

Social Services were called on SD12?

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Submitted by Dogmom1321 on Sun, 06/12/2022 - 9:29am

DH has made more of a conscious effort lately to reach out towards SD12 more. Last Wednesday he didn't get a text or phone call from SD12 on his birthday... wish he would have glazed over ir. But he texted SD that she forgot? I thought that was kind of weird. Anyway, DH invited SD12 to a soccer game with him on Saturday. SD said that was fine, but wanted to make sure it was not Friday "because I have an interview with Social Services." WTF? No clue what this could be about, but obviously something with BM since she has been over there for two weeks. Can't wait to hear...

DUMBEST Questions

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Submitted by Dogmom1321 on Mon, 05/23/2022 - 7:15pm

SD12 walked downstairs and saw a recent American flag I had set out for the upcoming Memorial Day weekend. SD proceeds to ask... "When is the Fourth of July?" Seriously?

*face palm* I said the Fourth of July is on July 4th. I guess either the tone I said it in or my face said it all. Lol. 

What are some of the dumbest questions your SKs have asked you?

Bully All Along

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Submitted by Dogmom1321 on Thu, 05/05/2022 - 8:07pm

SD12 is wrapping up 6th grade. She has always had a hard time socially. This year she found a group of "friends" and has been so excited about it. DH has been happy to see SD interacting with her peers instead of hiding in her room. 

Party Crasher

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Submitted by Dogmom1321 on Sat, 04/02/2022 - 11:09am

Our DS is turning one next weekend! DH and I are having family in town and some neighbors over. We got some party supplies already and some snacks/food. It's all organized downstairs in the basement. 
 

SD12 have a friend over yesterday after school. DH said it was fine for her to come over. Found out this morning that they opened and used a whole bag of balloons that were meant for the party. Ugh, seriously? 
 

Two Total Morons

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Submitted by Dogmom1321 on Mon, 03/21/2022 - 6:40pm

I feel bad for SD11 in this situation. BOTH of her parents are total morons. 

Backstory, I'm totally disengaged. I watch DH make some pretty dumb decisions, but as a SM I've realized it's not my place to parent. DH needs to be the one held responsible. 

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