SD63 asked to come over this morning to update me on her situation.  This was so ominous, I've been dreading it all week.

Guess what?  She never showed and didn't call.  What a relief!

When she was here several days ago, she went through a long detailed organ recital about many serious conditions.  When she asked to come over, I said I hoped it wasn't about money cuz I was tapped out.  So, all week, I've been wondering, if its not health or money, what else?  I know she has probs with all 3 of her kids but DH87 and I always refuse to get involved.

I posted gift suggestions for older adults last year but here it is again for new members.  DH87 and I 79 have all the "things" we need and, actually, we are trying to unload stuff on our poor kids, lol.  We still live independently in a middle class suburb.  I've also included suggestions other Steptalkers added last year.  Please feel free to add more.

SD61 came over to give DH87 a birthday gift.  He was looking forward to her visit.  We've recently been discussing the need for cleaning help and I agreed to give her a chance.  I really want a professional but he wants to give her an opportunity to earn the $ and I agree she's very clean.  I had reservations about her health but thought we'd see.  We planned to discuss with her today 

SD62 has 2 adult daughters, C and M, and both have 2 kids.  Each has reached out individually and want to meet up this summer.  M and I talked a few months ago about taking her kids to a children's museum.  Last night, C suggested coming over one day, bringing lunch and us sitting on the porch drinking wine and eating lunch.

I'm flattered and grateful that they want to see us.  I know they like to see DH who was a witty, fun grandpa to them.  C seems to remember the cooky baking sessions and would like for her sons to enjoy it, too.