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The BioMom Fails AGAIN!!!

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Submitted by FlaminMama on Sat, 07/22/2006 - 10:07am

So I haven't written in some time, mostly b/c there has been way too much drama so I will give the short story. We went on vacation, great time was so much fun, the surf, sand and water. Everyone had a great time even the sk's. So we get home and wham the storm started. The SS told his mom some really stupid lies, to get attention from her, like that my husband beat him. This ended with all of us in court a OPA and a month long stress fest. Of course the biomom lost in court and we did prove that she is feeding the kids nothing but bullshit.

Still haven't seen them

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Submitted by FlaminMama on Thu, 06/29/2006 - 8:47am

So it has now been 11 days since we have seen the sk's. We are supposed to get them this evening but I really doubt it. This should make for a very interesting holiday. My husband was able to actually call and talk to his daughter. He told her have your brother call me back, that was yesterday at around 10:00 she told him he was still sleeping, but he never did call back. So we will see today if she will let us get them. I can't wait to see what she is going to pull. It still blows my mind that the ss has not called him, I say that because they are really close.

PROZAC... SHE IS NUTS

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Submitted by FlaminMama on Mon, 06/26/2006 - 9:47am

Okay so the calm before the storm, was I ever right. So the deal, we didn't get the kids on Thursday like we were supposed to, she finally did call my husband on Sunday and said that the kids didn't want to see us. Then she proceeded to make the claim that my husband beats his son, let me tell you, he has rcvd 2 spankings within a 3 year time period, how is that beating. Next we find out that Thursday he had a breakdown and they took him to the Dr b/c he wouldn't stop crying so the DR perscribes him (an 11 yr old) PROZAC...... HELP ME

Still haven't heard from her

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Submitted by FlaminMama on Sun, 06/25/2006 - 8:00am

So is it Sunday now and we have called a lot to try to get a hold of the kids, still haven't heard form them. I know that they are okay b/c sd called my sister in law to see if he could sleep over on Friday she told him her son was sleeping over my house but he never called us. He had a game yesterday and didn't call us, so we didn't go. I am really not sure what is going on. I told my husband that he better get a hold of her and let her have it. I know that they haven't been with her all weekend, which is crap. She shipped them off to her parent’s house since Thursday.

Biomom in contempt....

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Submitted by FlaminMama on Fri, 06/23/2006 - 11:00am

So my husband and I normally get his kids every Thursday night and keep them over night and then take them to school, or back to where ever on Friday or keep them unitl she gets home. It has been this wasy for 4 years. So last night comes, my husband calls her 4 times, (4 on her cell, 4 at her home) no answer, we call the SS's cell phone, no answer, we call the biomom's parents, no answer. He left messages and still no call. So my question how do we get her in trouble.

Back from Vacation

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Submitted by FlaminMama on Wed, 06/21/2006 - 9:06am

Well the ss did end up coming on vacation with us. However he did wait until the day we were leaving to make this decision. We all had a great time, the sk's were starting to rattle my nerves towards the end of the trip. But I do understand that they were just excited about vacation, and wanted to do everything that they possibly could. There has been no real drama with biomom but I am sure I will soon have another great story.

Is biomom remarried???

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Submitted by FlaminMama on Thu, 06/08/2006 - 7:19am

So biomom does have a live in boyfriend, slash fiance, she acts though he is the great at almight SD. Even has the kids calling him dad... So I have been in the picture for 4-1/2 years him about the same time, and I have seen him maybe 5 times. He is never at the games, practices, anything. When ever we see biomom at something, you would think sd would be somewhere. He's never there. Why is that, yet she makes them call him dad. I was just wondering when and if they ever do get married (doubt that they will) does it get better or worse for us.....

How can we get the kids away from BIOMOM

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Submitted by FlaminMama on Tue, 06/06/2006 - 4:44pm

It's so awful that when we went to our lawyer he said that unless who can prove she is having sex, doing drugs, or leaving the kids unattended you will never get them away. Why is it that the justice system plays the we can't take them away from the mother bit. I know that in a lot of cases the mothers are better fit, they do take care of the kids, and they are the # 1 thing and it shows. But then there are dads like those moms, who would move heaven and earth but can't b/c of the system.

Question of the day?

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Submitted by FlaminMama on Tue, 06/06/2006 - 4:28pm

Here's one for discussion, Going into your relationship with husband and then following through and getting married, did you ever think maybe not, maybe not to be a stepmom and to have to mess with biomom......
My friend who is a SM talks about that all the time. So does that mean that the love isn't enough to make you doubt or that the stress is really taking it's toll....

Biomom talks to me for over 45 minutes.....

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Submitted by FlaminMama on Tue, 06/06/2006 - 3:16pm

Has this happened to anyone else.... Whenever my husband is not around, and we are at a sporting event, you would think that she is my best friend. Last night she talked to me for 45 minutes about anything and everything.... So for the kids I put on the show, talk and smile and blah blah.... But if the hubby is with my I am the enemy. Why is that we as women, I don't just blame her but me to, b/c if he is around, I purposely don't speak to her. Does this happen to anyone else

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