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Vacation Plans for over 6 months.....

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Submitted by FlaminMama on Sun, 06/04/2006 - 12:13pm

So we are going to the beach and we leave this week on Friday. We have had these plans forever..... So yesterday my ss's grandmother (the ex's mom) tells my husband that the ss doesn't want to come anymore because he will miss 4 games and 2 birthday parties. I am more than a little upset. I mean this is a family vacation. My sister and her husband and kids, my mom and dad, and then the five of us ss and sd included. Should I be upset or just let it go.....

Summer Scheduling

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Submitted by FlaminMama on Fri, 06/02/2006 - 8:01am

So this summer we have decided with biomom to let the kids come live with us for a week at a time and alternate back and forth between the two households. This all steps from the fact the the ss (11 yrs old) wnats to come live with us. How conveinent for her that she has her parents set up camping trips for a week long on the weeks we are supposed to have them. Just so he can't see what it would be like to live with us. What to do???

Mt Dew for a child with ADHD

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Submitted by FlaminMama on Wed, 05/31/2006 - 3:48pm

Well, I have a question lets say you have a overly hyper child (the doctor confirms ADHD) put them on the meds would you give them the medication and then follow it up with a Jault drink. Hello how stupid can you be. The child is already overly active not really in a horrible way, but add the vault to the equasion and it equals diaster. So here we are out in public at the crack of dawn and her mother has brought a large bag of chips and a vault to drink. Then not even 20 mins after she has downed this drink, she is yelling at her to settle down and calm down. Just being completely stupid.

Is Biomom trying to be friends with my child

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Submitted by FlaminMama on Wed, 05/31/2006 - 3:42pm

Here's another brain teaser, why is it that the ex thinks she is on some level ok to talk and like socialize with daughter. Every time we are all together, she is constantly talking to her, buying her snacks, or bringing them for her. It aggravates me to no end. I know that my child doesn't know the 'situation' but why is she doing that. Always like running to her a card and taking my baby with her. I don't like that at all, I know I am being petty, but ugh!!!! It drives me crazy

Topic for the day - Hand's off Parenting???? Anyone else

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Submitted by FlaminMama on Wed, 05/31/2006 - 3:31pm

Another the topic I would like to cover, what is the deal with my husband being so quiet about all of this. I know that it bothers him, but he never speaks his mind. Why is it that the real dad / mom that doesn't have custody takes such a back seat to the parenting. My husband's defense, if I yell and scream at her she will just take it out on the kids. But at what point do we just let all this stuff happen. What I always try to tell him, would you rather it be too late. I mean for goodness sake's she already let's them have group sleep over without separating the boys and girls.

A New User - I think that this is a great thing!

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Submitted by FlaminMama on Wed, 05/31/2006 - 2:03pm

Let's Bring you up to Speed

Okay so the jest of it, I very much dislike my husband's ex wife. Really it has nothing to do with the fact that she is the ex, more to do with the kids and the stupid things she does. So I am starting a journal and letting you decide am I over reacting or is she seriously demented.

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