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I was taught as a young child not to hate. I was told you don't really hate this/her/it you just don't like it very much. As I've grown older I have tried to live by those rules, but I can now say that hatred isn't a strong enough word for what I feel towards my husbands ex-wife. I have finally had enough of her and her lies, manipulations, etc. I went through a few months of complete depression because of her that I had to be put on an anti-depressant and see a counselor!
Well, We had 2 phone calls this afternoon on the landline. No messages, but stepson called twice. Then he called and left a message on my cell wanting to know if he could stop off and visit on his way back from leave going back to his military base in FL. I told husband to call him and figure things out. I am not going to deal with this anymore. Husband will not discuss any issues with SS regarding SD or ex. And SS will mind his own business. I have nothing to discuss with SS at all. I am still very angry and upset.
A funny thought occured to me today... I wonder if there are blogs out there "Where Biomoms Come to Vent." I'd think there must be. Oh, Lordy, wonder what THEY say about US? 
I'm new to the site and now that I sit here at my computer I'm not sure what I want to write. My BF is not yet divorced from his wife, and yes, we started the affair before he even knew he wanted to leave. He has 3 children, from the wife, I have one. The soon-to-be ex-wife moved out in May, and recently the kids were told of our relationship. Things are complicated to say the least, but I'm not so stupid to start whining about a situation I put myself into with open eyes, I'm just trying to figure it all out.
to me. I'm always writing in the negative, but today is my B-day and my boyfriend is the most wonderful guy in the whole wide world. He gave me a card last night that sounded like it was written just to describe our love for each other. He woke me up this morning with coffee waiting and a happy birthday note in the bathroom. He asked me if I wanted to go out for dinner or stay at home and he would cook us dinner - I chose to be at home with the one I love. My daughter is in California on vacation with her godparents, but left a voice mail at 12:30 a.m.
I can't believe it! The new attorney is actually doing follow thru to make sure information is getting to the internet providers to make sure the blog sites are getting shut down. I just got a "cc" on an email he just sent today, which was actually a complete shock to me. Could believe that somebody was actually doing some work. That's new.
Hopefully I won't hear from the wicked witch, or what we commonly refer to as "the old bat", "the Loon", or "the lunatic" for awhile. Like never would be most acceptable to me.
Well, we're making some progress. I just got email confirmation from xanga.com and they just shut down SD's site. I think that the myspace.com site was also shut down as a result of the attorney's letter, as well. It helps some.
It doesn't make it go away, though.
I think most of you probably remember the age old saying, "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me." Don't think I'd ever say anything more personal than a comment about the weather if I ever heard from SK's in my life again. Cause the climate here, is really chilly.
BRRRRRRR, cold.
Well, it is my husband's BD tomorrow. We are technically "on vacation" but the cell number is not changed. But I don't expect that even SS will be big enough to call his Dad to wish him a Happy BD. I am rather annoyed with him anyways from this other mess from SD and his lies, rather than being honest. And SD will not talk to my husband, unless he apologizes. He has said, hell will freeze over first, as he did nothing wrong. And he is now absolutely furious, after the defammation incident, saying she just completely crossed the line.
I thought this was pretty funny and I really appreciated it because it's been a while since anything like this happened.
My boyfriend's daughter went to a party on Saturday with her biomom (on our weekend) and then she had to work from 5:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. When we picked her up she wanted us to stop and get her a calzone, which we did (we had already had dinner earlier). We went home and my boyfriend told his daughter that he would be waking her up around 11:00 a.m. the next morning to spend some time with her before she had to go to work at 5:00 p.m. Well, 11:00 a.m. the next day he woke her up and she screamed at him telling him she was tired and to leave her alone.
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