Hi, please bear with me because I just deleted some of my postings coz I suspected my BF knew about this sight from my web address history. I don't him reading the posts that would be obvious that I was talking about our situation, especially his relationship with his SD. I know he would feel betrayed that I shared my feelings with strangers and not him. But what am I suppose to do when he builds a wall around him and we can't discuss any issues. I am so much open to people on this website than my own BF. That's messed up. I will continue posting but not make the postings obvious from whom they come from. The encouragement and advice that I have gotten from this site is so invaluable. Thanks everyone.