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Let it go... it's Christmas

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Submitted by Steamed on Tue, 12/28/2010 - 2:00pm

And that was my theme for christmas...., just let it go, not worth getting into it with SS22 and ruining my Christmas.....

for example:

- no recognition, "thank you" or even eye contact from SS22 after or during him opening his gifts.

- Nothing from SS22 for me or his BM (my DW), and of course nothing for his sister (My SD21) or my BS12.

Biting my facebook tongue

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Submitted by Steamed on Thu, 12/23/2010 - 7:55am

I so wanted to respond to SS22's facebook post, he was complaining about the fact that he doesn't have a girlfriend...., saying it's so hard for great guys to find a good girlfriend....gag me

How can he even think that he has anything to offer when he is fresh out of jail (3rd time), sleeping on my couch, about to get his butt kicked out of my house, and doesn't have a dime to his name except for what he has mooched off of us. What's he gonna say, "c'mon back to my place, we can share the couch" lol.

I cannot understand the way he thinks...

I'm back...., unfortunately : (

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Submitted by Steamed on Fri, 12/17/2010 - 9:13am

I was just reviewing my blog, wow, been two years since I last posted on this forum.

Unfortunately, I feel the need to vent once again, guess who is back in my house?

For two years, I have been able to keep this good for nothing kid (SS, now 22 yrs old) from mooching off of me. He has either been in jail, or living elsewhere in that time frame.

Maybe, just maybe coming around to my point of view?

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Submitted by Steamed on Fri, 08/17/2007 - 10:43am

Yesterday was court day for both SS and SD. Yep, that's right, both of them in court on the same day.

SD had a pretty good job at a local car dealership until she decided one day to shred an invoice and pocket the cash. She said she needed money for minutes on her cell phone, GRRRRRR. What the hell is wrong with these kids?

Anyway, SS went to court yesterday for the corruption to minors charge, got 3 months probation, basically a slap on the wrist.

Feeling miserable

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Submitted by Steamed on Fri, 07/13/2007 - 12:25pm

I am getting to the point that I am so disgusted with myself, this is not the kind of person that I am or want to be. Yet I continue soldiering on, hoping for a change that I know probably will never come. I'm pretty much left with chosing between my dignity, morals and self worth or my marriage.

SS Update

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Submitted by Steamed on Wed, 06/06/2007 - 10:27am

It's been a while since I have posted here, just have been very busy with Little League and other things at work, haven't had the time or inclination to put thoughts down until today, but that doesn't mean things are peachy, just the opposite of course, some of the things that have happened recently:

Why can't I be wrong once in a while?

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Submitted by Steamed on Thu, 05/03/2007 - 2:54pm

Well once again SS has proved my prediciton correct. He decided two days ago to quit his job. My wife just found out about it today, he is supposed to be leaving for school in a week and was supposed to transfer to a Walmart near the school but not sure if they will take him now. He only had a few more days to work there and then he would be starting school so I guess it doesn't really matter much, just that he never seems to finish anything, always takes shortcuts.

Wife gave him an ultimatum, (hopefully she will stick to it but I'm not gonna hold my breath)

Under my skin...again

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Submitted by Steamed on Mon, 04/09/2007 - 9:24am

Today is our 3rd wedding anniversary, I got up this morning kissed my wife and wished her a happy anniversary, I was hoping that today we could have a good day, maybe do something together tonight, just the two of us and have a stress free day, apparantly not to be.....

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