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So my posts run about two weeks apart because that's the time between visits! I wish I could get on here more but no time. Hope everyone is doing well.
Me and my bf want to take the biological mother back to court for full coustdy!because when we dropped anthony off sunday there was a new guy with her she has knowed him a month and he is living in the home with the kids!this is the third man that has lived there with her and the kids!We don;t want so many male figuers in and out of his life she is even married to one and still is!
today...in just ONE day...
7yr old ss had 5 meltdowns (that is actually a low number) but that doesnt include all the arguements. DH did make an appt with a child Psychiatrist 
YEAH!
9yr old ss, ran full blast at our bedroom door and broke it...blew the jam off and splintered it all the way down. DH is freakin. Then he(ss) stands there and tells us "IT ISNT BROKEN!" wow......
SS is on fall break, and as such is supposed to spend 5 days with BF. BM, of course, doesn’t want this to happen, so she lied to BF and told him that SS is not on fall break. Well of course BF found out otherwise, and on Saturday night he called her to figure out when she wanted him to bring SS back now that he knew she was lying (he strategically planned waiting until he already had SS in his care so that she couldn't freak out and run with him when BF revealed he knew she was lying).
So with today being a holiday Stepson did not have school. This was our weekend, and on Sunday morning biomom informed us to drop ss off with a stranger because she had to work and the other options for drop off we use were unavailable. My husband tells her no, that he is not going to drop him off with just a stranger and that she has until 11 to find someone to get him that he KNOWS or that we are going to keep him. So 11 passes, 12 passes, 1 passes and then about 1:30 or 2, the phone rings. It is biomoms dad telling us that he is home now that Scott needs to bring ss home.
It has been a while since my last post, and now - it is a whole new world... There is a new baby in this new world, a beautiful little girl. She is three weeks old today. On Friday, her mother (my SD) is packing her up to drive her five hours to "visit" her bf and his parents. They should be back in about a week or so. Wow.
Oh my, I have come to dread the Weekend Visit as much as a root canal! It's odd because we actually only get one more,4yr old ss, but the volume goes thru the roof! So now we have ss9,ss7 and ss4 along with my 9 year old bio son. Sometimes I feel like his kids are trying to wipe each other off the planet. It would be funny if it weren't so darn stressful.
I'm so glad I wasn't home. Im sure it is better this way. I left my daughter with my husband on his weekend with his two kids. Background. SKids pretty hostile towards my 2 year old, their half sister. Apparently they were being rude to her. She fell down the stairs and they wouldn't help her. She went to them with her arms out and they ignored her. My husband decided that until they treated "all" people, including their little sister, with kindness and respect, they would lose priviledges.
For thoese who have read my blogs today and yesterday, I'm sure you could tell I was having a melt down. One of my 'buddies' told me to google insprirational quotes. (THANK YOU!!!) All I have to say is WOW! What a differance they made. What a way to feel better about everything. I will not let the harpi ruin the best thing that has happened in my life. s.2.b. is my other half, and I will not give it up just because I have to deal with her drama bull shit.With the good comes the bad, as with everything, and s.2.b. has made me a better person.
I haven't posted in a while and figured that it was time to get some great feedback on my situation.