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Can Anyone Help?

goingcrazy1447's picture

Iam new to this site, so please bear with me. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and I love him very much, but, there are soo many problems with his ex and his kids that I think I will go crazy. So, first thing is first.... Ex is a very controlling person and she thinks she needs to have control over our household as well. She is constantly calling and telling me or BF how things should or need to be done, in her opinion of course. SD(11) lives with her and SS(14) lives with us, and we/she has both of them every other weekend.

burn the house down?

whoami's picture

since i have been back everything has been greet between fiancee and i - not so great with his ex and the situation with the house (among other things) that has been sitting on and off the market for 2 years now. as stated in a previous post, the house has been a problem for a while. it won't sell, the ex lives in it with her BF (who has no job btw) and the 2 kids.

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h7's picture

Well I've just moved back from the big city (hated it) & am in total transition mode. I have a new job & a new home, even though my stuff is not moved into it yet. Until then I am staying with my parents...

Nothing important, just annoyed for no reason

fizzyfuzzy's picture

So, I don't really have anything important to say, I just need to vent b/c I'm annoyed. I'm almost 9 months pregnant and been running ALL the errands with all three Skids, DH convienently forgets appointments and activities so I get stuck doing it, whatever! Anyway, they all have dentist appointments today. And they are at three different school in three different areas of our town, annoying right? Well, yesterday I go over what time I'll be picking all of them up.

we're setting a wedding date this week...how to handle?

whoami's picture

after 7 months of being angaged and all the ups and downs and work we have both done, we have decided to set a wedding date this week. i am looking for some advice on how to handle it with his kids and lunatic ex (she lost her mind when she found out we got engaged of course). we have had several talks about eloping but i hear from friends,etc that we should really try to include the kids in our wedding plans. i would love doing this but i am still having some issues with his 16yo son.

I'm ready to leave..how to file?

strugglingat28's picture

I think its finally rolling up in to a tragic ending for my husband and I. My heart is broken, but I can't do this forever. I don't know what to do or how to work through this horribly painful process.
We own a business together...wow, what to do about that?
Legal advice?
How can I get through this?
I don't know if I can take this stress. Personal advice for strength?

What does "best interests of the children" really mean?

sosmomof6's picture

I have been pondering this question a lot lately. The courts claim that everything they do is in the child's "best interest", not the mother's or the father's. The courts claim that they are not biased, but I see a different story. Because of the way the contempt and modification hearing went down in May, BM is now convinced that she can do whatever she wants and it's ok. DH emailed her to ask if we can transfer the booster seat that she says she has into his Dad's car if we pick SS up that way.

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