Keep in mind that this was AFTER a good week of her being completely normal and us getting along. AND this was after her calling me ALL day complaining about why SD didn't go potty more during the day yesterday and why was she having accidents?

BM:I'll send you guys my potty training for dummies book so you two can read it to get the information I got. That way we can all be on the same page. It's not good for her to be trained one way by me and another by you two. Its going to confuse her and make it harder on all of us. Thanks

I don't think shes ready. SD is 2 1/2 and everything I've read says you shouldn't try to potty train if they haven't reached certain developmental stages. BM has been putting her on the potty every hour by the hour so of course shes bound to go a couple times in the potty but she doesn't understand the point. All she knows is that music plays and she gets a treat.

So my SO has a "friend" (not really this guy is just a leech and won't leave him alone and SO is too nice to tell him to fuck off) and he repulses the shit out of me.

He stopped over today on his lunch break and immediately launched into a tirade against his wife. Now they are a little older then SO and I, in their mid-30's I would say, married for 8 years...and now they have hit a dry spell.

SO and I went to FOC yesterday to meet with BM (I sat in the waiting room while they spoke to the caseworker) and it was great. BM and I small talked for a bit about timeouts and pottytraining.

I am still hellbent on making this relationship work for all of us, I can tell BM doesn't know what to do now that she realises all her viscious lies about me really AREN'T true. I think she had herself convinced that I was actually some drugged out whore but I digress.