SO's friend is a shitty husband and a repulsive human being

So my SO has a "friend" (not really this guy is just a leech and won't leave him alone and SO is too nice to tell him to fuck off) and he repulses the shit out of me.

He stopped over today on his lunch break and immediately launched into a tirade against his wife. Now they are a little older then SO and I, in their mid-30's I would say, married for 8 years...and now they have hit a dry spell.

"Bob" (not his real name) Bobs theory on marriage is that "Shes my G*d Damn wife and if I want to kiss her I'm gonna kiss her, if I wanna hug her I'm gonna hug her and if I wanna fuck her she sure as shit better let me because if she can't I'm gonna find someone that can. I gave her till monday to make up her damn mind or I'm filing for divorce papers.

WHAT THE HELL. Not to mention we just had to hear a few weeks ago about how he "took it from her" because she was being a bitch and its his marital right or some bullshit nonsense.

I hope he divorces her. No, I PRAY that he divorces her. I don't care if you're married, rape is rape and he is not trying AT ALL to understand WHY she is feeling the way she is.

I told BOb that sometimes couples have dry spells and him forcing himself on her is not going to solve anything....all I got was more "fuck that! Shes MY WIFE! blahbblahblah"...

Am I wrong for feeling disgusted and letting SO know that I would strongly prefer this man to NOT be allowed in our home anymore or is this just how men view marriage now because you know I would be GONE in a heartbeat if SO tried to pull that with me...

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Wonder if this guy knows that

Wonder if this guy knows that RAPE is still very illegal and even a WIFE can press charges against her HUSBAND.

Ok good I was just sitting on

Ok good I was just sitting on the couch like what the hell this guy can't be serious right?? SO doesn't really like him either like I said he's just too nice. I think hes learning though because as Bob was leaving he asked SO for our new number (because we got a home phone and ditched the cells) and SO "accidently" switched one of the numbers around lol

It just made me upset not only for his wifes sake but because SO and I were in the exact same situation for a few months where I didn't want to be touched or have sex or anything of the sort and that was something that I had to work on for ME. It wasn't him you know it was my own things that I was dealing with, Johnny Depp couldn't have touched me at the time lol but I can't even imagine if SO hadn't been so supportive (hurt, but supportive) and had instead decided to force me because thats his "right"....shudder.