So after everything, (see 2nd to last blog) SO told BM that he was not to call this house for her "reaasonable phone time" with SD after 6pm. Simple as that. So she calls at 6 yesterday. Fine. SO then goes to work. And what does she do then? CALLS AT 7! WTF?! I obviously didn't answer.

Also when she dropped SD off Sunday she brought her in PJs because she was "sick" and she gave SO yet ANOTHER revised schedule for this month.

SO gets SD every 4 days. As in BM has her for 4 days then SO gets her for 2 days, BM 4, SO 2 and so on.

Sometimes on one of SO's nights he'll have to work, mind you he works nights so he'll go in around 8 and get out around midnight...WHEN SD IS SLEEPING. I am here so no big deal.

Also remember when I took it upon myself to record our "meeting" with BM when she agreed to this new parenting time? Well SO CLEARLY told her during this meeting that sometimes he would have to work at night and was she okay with that? Oh yeah, not a problem at all! (her response).

FMIL and I get along fairly well but I can't help but be irritated and suspicious about her blatant shows of favoritism in their family. First off, they are one of those strictly loyal to the family type families and if you piss them off you will die basically.

The thing is SO is her oldest so him and I are the "adults" in the children group if that makes any sense. I've blogged about this before but I pretty much hate SO's brother. He 25 years old, dating a 20 year old, lives in a shitty little trailor, sells weed, his gf is useless...BUT FMIL dotes on them CONSTANTLY.

So apparently last time when SO got the CO modified to the new parenting plan, he had them take the daycare costs off his CS and said he would just pay her directly.

She called today because the bill is due and she needs money. I looked at him and said absolutely not. He needs to find out where the daycare is and pay them directly.

So thank you everyone of StepTalk because I probably would not have even thought anything of it if I hadn't come here lol