Well, lets see...I am new at this, but I really need someone to talk to. I was married in July of 2008 and the "drama" never stops with the biological mom. I get so fustrated at least once a week, because she is a narcissitic person and her life is not fulfilled unless she causes my husband and myself trouble.

I live in Virginia and we are expecting a home study, this Wednesday.. Does anyone have any idea what these consist of I have nothing to hide, but I am nervous about some stranger coming into my home and evaluating me..I have never been through anything remotely close to this..We are doing this because the judge ordered it, my DH is trying to get sole custody of his children..Any information will be greatly appreciated..

My husband & I have been together for 9 years and married for 7. His kids were 10 mo.(girl) & 3(boy) and mine were 22(girl) mo & 3(boy). We were awarded residential custody after she took us to court trying to take them 7 1/2 years ago. My kids are with us the majority of the time and his kids are with us about 70 percent of the time. We also share a 5 year old(girl). I am the primary caregiver to all of the children. His kids are mostly loving when they are home but when they go to their mother's they lie about things that happen here.

Well most people would say I got every thing I wanted, however why am I still not happy. My DH won placement my SS crazy BM only gets him wed and EOW, so why am I still checking her myspace to see her mood, why do I care what she is doing, why do I get so mad when I see her? OK so she tried to destroy me for the past 3 years but we won, so I should be happy that she is not, knowing I get to be with her son 25 days out of the month and she gets him 5 days out of the month. Why do I seem obsessed with her?