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Why is it every time?????????

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Submitted by baybee9404 on Mon, 02/16/2009 - 2:30pm

Why is it every time i want BM to actually take care of her child when there is no school, I get the 3rd degree from H that i dont want his daughter around and want to pond her off to her mother. It is February vacation from school this week. I asked H if SD was gonna spend more than just 1 day with BM since it is school vacation and he tells me no the one day is fine enough, why do i always want to get rid of her????

Me and my big mouth :S

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Submitted by northernsiren on Mon, 02/16/2009 - 12:59pm

Well, apparently I sort of ruined valentine's day. We brought SD to get her bank account opened that morning, and somehow, in the course of filling out papers, FH made a mention of me taking his last name when we married.

This is the first time we talked about this issue, and I have mixed feelings on the subject. I just said "we'll talk about it later." And he immediately took that as I refused to take his name, and was very hurt and angry. Sad

Well, so much for Valenties Day....once again, H proves to be who he is

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Submitted by bewitched on Mon, 02/16/2009 - 11:42am

So, Valentines Day. Hmmm. Sat. H wanted me to drive to the apartment to spend valentines (intentionally not capitalized) with him.

But first, while I was getting ready for the trip (4 hour drive), he calls. Says he wants to buy a Ford Bronco-older one-to restore. Knowing if I said what I thought of it, I just said "whatever". So, in addition to the toolbox and tools he bought himself last week, he is spending $1,000 on this old vehicle.

I don't know how to take this

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Submitted by sam on Mon, 02/16/2009 - 10:56am

My ss bm came and moved ss out while dh and i were out for valentines dinner.We were gone maybe an hour and a little bit and when we got home there was a note on the table saying moved to moms and dont forget cs check with her address following.So my dh has been up for 2 nights drinking himself silly.It pisses me off that she has so much pull in our marriage and has done this to hurt dh and i.I feel so bad for him but at the same time pissed off because she wants him to feel like shit and he is letting that happen.SS still has not phoned and we cant phone because we only have her cell numbe

Valentine's Day

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Submitted by Endora on Mon, 02/16/2009 - 9:55am

Had it's moments. DH had to travel Saturday re some issues with his ailing Father-so we exchanged V gifts before he left (I got some flowers and a beautiful hand painted dark wood jewlery box).

That left me and Zippy (peacefully sleeping until noon-THEN Zip had to work from 12:30pm-9PM- Smile )

I had a girlfriend over for dinner and a chick flick-lots of fun-

The weekend got marginally better as Zippy had to work again yesterday 12-9pm-

HELP!!! I am so Fustrated!!

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Submitted by FustratedStepmom on Mon, 02/16/2009 - 9:19am

Well, lets see...I am new at this, but I really need someone to talk to. I was married in July of 2008 and the "drama" never stops with the biological mom. I get so fustrated at least once a week, because she is a narcissitic person and her life is not fulfilled unless she causes my husband and myself trouble.

Am I wrong???

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Submitted by smurfy1smile on Mon, 02/16/2009 - 8:52am

BF has a temp order that says he gets BS EOW (Friday @ 5pm until Monday morning when baby is to be dropped off at daycare 60 miles one-way away)and every Thursday. I have beem doing all the driving on Fridays and Mondays for the past 8 weeks since I have not been working much. I got a job last week that I started today that is M-F 8am to noon so I can no longer drive his son to daycare on Monday mornings.

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