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When you see my face, I hope it gives you hell, hope it gives you hell. When you walk my way, hope it gives you hell, hope it gives you hell . . .
I'm terrible. LOL!
It's going rather well so far (knock on wood). Yesterday when she was to bring the kids home, I didn't call and say by the way the freeway isclosed, sorry, make sure you take the back road. SS16 called me about an hour after he should've been here already and said, "um....we are lost on some wierd dirt road somewhere-we have no idea when we will get there." I sad ok no biggy-see you when you get here.
DUH-she has a GPS navigator on her phone and a Tom Tom (left at home), yet she's lost-giggle giggle-der.
I know that CS is an issue that comes up a lot here, and want to hear what you have to say about this.
When we had EOW visitation, my DH paid close to the tune of $1500 a month in CS. BM requested he pay this amount when they got divorced so he agreed mainly because he just wanted to be rid of her.
Then, I came along. I was the one paying ALL the bills. Why? Because DH had to hand over almost all of his paycheck to BM in order to pay CS.
Before we had the falling out with my mil, i had planned a huge pirate bday for my ss turning 4. I had a huge pirate ship jumper scheduled, an actor from Disneyland coming as a pirate to entertain the kids, a treasure hunt, invites that were a message in a bottle...etc Well, i canceled it all because we couldnt find another location besides my mil's house to have it. instead we are doing something with just us and him...
anyways, i have know that bm was planning on having a pirate party for ss as soon as he told her i daddy and i were having one.
What am I doing to myself? Why do I check her myspace why do I care what she is doing. I love it when her myspace is sad, I hate when she seems fine, how can you be fine that you only see your son on wed. for 3 hours and then every other weekend? Now she has to pay CS to my DH and she can not afford the life style she has now, she was only doing ok because my DH was paying her 600 a month now she has to pay us 300 a month, not that I care how she survives, you had a child you should pay.
Well... I love SD5 ONLY when she has been here for a few days in a row... everything is so great, I don't even want her to leave... but if she is not with us for a few days, I don't want her to come back?... and I act weird, and almost everything she does bothers me (although she does some annoying things when she spends a lot of time with her mother)...
WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME????
Right now we have her every other day during the week and every other weekend... and I LOVED this past weekend(SDLESS)... IT was sooo relaxing... :O
Hello everyone,
I really need your opinions quick. ~Sigh~ Sorry, this is going to be long. Here I go....
H was home this weekend, and SD14 spent the weekend with us. Sunday H takes her home...and H and BM (I was excluded) decided-guess what? Open bar for SD17's graduation.
I knew this was coming-I even blogged something about a tiara and dance-(he did not say there would be a dance, but who knows?)
But since they have to have the fine and fancy country club for graduation, they've now decided to have an open bar.
I was a teenager not so long ago, but even given that I had direct experience being a 16 yr. old girl, I really don’t understand SD16’s behavior this weekend concerning her b-day.
I am.
I chose to go to a makeup soccer game yesterday knowing that my SDs'mom was going to be there. It was right after my BS9's game, same exact field. DH said it would be fun and no big deal. My boys and I could stay after BS9's game and just watch. BM was fired up that morning over an unmet ridiculous demand on her part and it made me weary as to spend any time in close proximity to her. I should have known better.
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