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I have nothing to do with bm , mutual hatred.
Today I've been to see a consultant, awaiting not so great tests, and ordered dd a food delivery for our return home.
Dh failed to clarify with ss whether he will be staying or not, assumed not.
Myself and dd arrived home and awaited her food delivery. So a car pulls up and I dutifully went to door/outside. To come face to face with ss and bm. Felt surprised, awkward, upset , she obviously felt the same!
Etc etc.
Dr confirmed what I thought I knew - it is NOT cancer and NOT a stroke and NOT a brain bleed.
When I described the symptoms, he said if it happens again, go immediately to the ER.
DH's surgery went well. Expect he'll be in some pain and will definitely be going for physical therapy, but the scariest part is over. Whew.
And still not a peep from SD43ish or SS37ish. SD has made it clear that she is not speaking to him (and won't tell him why, she's so mature). SS is a little more mysterious. They seemed to be ok, but he's gone radio silent. The fear is always that the call of addiction is back in play. I pray not.
I'm not going to bother to call them. They obviously don't care. It's so unbelievable to me.
We got proof of life yesterday. It started with a text. "Sorry, I am having memory problems and keep forgetting to call.".
We both got home early enough to speak with him. He sounded good, works seems to be going well. I always get nervous when he goes radio silent as this was highly indicative of poor performance when he was in his late HS phase.
His cat is apparently demanding, happy, and torturing him. I like this cat.
We got proof of life yesterday. It started with a text. "Sorry, I am having memory problems and keep forgetting to call.".
We both got home early enough to speak with him. He sounded good, works seems to be going well. I always get nervous when he goes radio silent as this was highly indicative of poor performance when he was in his late HS phase.
His cat is apparently demanding, happy, and torturing him. I like this cat.
Recap: SD17 Power sulk purchased a tattoo kit online, with money from an "allowance" being given by Toxic Troll. It was sent to our house. I researched, found out what it was, spoke with sweetheart niece, and determined that she would not get her kit until 18. 65 days. Spoke with husband (hes not dear at the point, in case youve missed that...) and he generally agreed with me, and promised that he would not give her kit until 18. I gave it over to him with assurances we were united in this.
What really happened:
I'll start with in high school I played field hockey, indoor and outdoor track. My ex boyfriends mom was a physical therapist... so I'm not a complete f'n moron when it comes to muscles.
SD is NOT an athlete. She tries (kind of but she isn't competitive ) really just isn't. She started playing lacrosse again last year (10th grade) and she hasn't played since she was 9. She played rec basketball 5th-7th grade.
My Brother's FIL lost his wife, my SIL's SM, about a year ago. Today he posted a sad but sweet birthday wish for her and thanking her for the best years of his life. This man has been married 3 or so times and has multiple ex BMs and sets of kids. My SIL is the youngest and was just one of a harem of adult mini wives.
One of his daughter's commented under his sad birthday post to his DECEASED WIFE "I love you daddy! I know SM is smiling on you and loving you. She's with BM and celebrating the love they share for you, your kids and family"
It's been a joy I must confess not having SD here for the amount of months that she refused her visitation. No drama , other then the drama MIL tries to bring in the house after talking to BM and SD14. This Easter is a long weekend with the kids having off Friday and Monday, I had a gut feeling that BM would try to get SD to come on a long weekend, it's not DH weekend. We have plans to go to my sisters house on Saturday to do a Easter egg hunt for the little kids ( my Bio son will be with his dad ) . Well SD texted DH asking if she could come for Easter, siggghhhhhh!
So, no messages from SD17 Powersulk about packages.
Packages still hidden
Spoke with Husband and he agrees - no she doesnt get the tattoo starter kit until shes 18, and he will explain why.
I had previously had a few more convos with SH Cousin who put the fear into me, so now I understand more about the risks. Unclean needles, unlean gun, inclean anything leads to infection and possible diseases.
Trust that she will do the right thing? hahahah.
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