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SD just got back from her EOW visit with her idiotic BM, this after telling her dad last week that she wanted to go back and live with the nut case even though the court found her unfit, cause she does not want to follow our rules. Today, my DH got a subpeona in the mail for the 11 yr old genius. Of course the Judge told both my DH and the BM that under no circumstances was the child to come to the court house again, yes she drug her there before trying to help her case. They could see that she was coached so well her mother could take Jim Zorns job.
I am a free spirited person who loves my DH dearly, like every marriage we have ups and downs....here is what i would like comments on...my teenage son, is now exploring "girls" if you know what i mean and am i wrong for asking my husband to take an active roll in talking to him about girls etc etc..i mean my son's BF is not in the picture and i really want my DH to talk to him but the issue is that my DH has told me at times that he has tried to make comments before and during one of these sessions out of frustration i told him not to talk to my son like that and that he is not his real fa
My husband has to go court on 12/3/2009 to fight for custody of his little girl. Her mother pasted away when she was two, he shareshe; custody with her aunt. When we got married and had our child the aunt started with so much drama. My husband has a court hearing on 12/3/09 because the aunt wants full custody. I was the bread winner of our family,but I lost my job in April. The lawyer wants 4400 to take the case but we cant afford it.
I just don't know what to do. I have an 11 year old step son that absolutely hates me and makes it clear everyday. He is rude, disrespectful, obnoxious, and he is the same way at school. He is also this way to my husband and my 2 children from a previous marriage. I fear he will be the demise of my marriage. My husband has full custody of him and his mother lives in Arkansas and sees him once a year if even that, so I never get a break from this. Does anyone have any advise for me. PLEASE???
FH just left to take some antibiotics to SD8. I am not in agreement with this, but who the hell am I?
Or am I just weird?
I'm very much into music, so I find music very comforting for different times in my life.
Like here's one song, that I have felt I have been on both sides of... One, me trying to change someone I loved (very unsuccessfully, I may add) ... and the same song where I knew someone was trying to change me... but they couldn't ... no matter how hard they tried...
Do you have any songs that you would consider to be on "Ipod of Your Life"?
"Can't Change Me by Chris Cornell"
Do NOT read if you are not in the mood for a "happy" message!
Believe me... that's not a jab at anyone. I have been in a dark place a lot recently and I have been skipping some happy empathetic posts lately!! What does that say when one of the professed "rainbows and butterflies" club is ready to down some margaritas and take out an uzi??? Hmmm....
And then... I read Katrinkle's response to CG's "Dreaming" blog.
Katrinkle had come to a place where she realized that NOTHING was going to MAKE her happy. So she made a "decision" to live a happy life.
Once again, I am seeking your expert advice. Can anyone share with me how they constructed their will?(How they decided who gets what, with Skids?)
I am asking because we are going to sign for our house in a few weeks, and I learned that if we don't have a will, even though I am married, DH's half of the home will go 1/3 to me 2/3 to SS. Althought I agree SS deserves some money in the even DH is gone, I am paying for this house and am not willing to negociate with a 2.5 year old to get my home back (even less with his mother)
Ok, so BF is spending more time with SS12; BF is calmer because he got some over time (money freaks him out); BF is going to counselor on a regular basis!
This morning he called from work and wanted to talk about 'some things that the counselor suggested'
:O
So I listened. I liked all of the suggestions. All of them point to a closer "us".
Now that I have a bottle of wine in..(Forgive all spelling mistakes) I need to vent again! Sorry!
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