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I have to give you credit, you must have gone to great lengths to find my FH's name and then find him on Facebook. And great job on your detective work! You also figured out the name of my SD8...you must be so proud of yourself. Although I feel sad for you that you have nothing better to do than to spend all this time in your life just trying to hurt people who are already struggling with their emotions...way to kick a family when they're down.
FH and I had a cookout 2day and everything went so well! Our families didn't mingle much but my "blended family" got along so well! I'm sooooo proud and happy and excited right now...I can't even explain!
I am having a dark day. my post have been all over the board, good, bad, scared, and today kinda depressed. LAst night, friday night, SD 15 saays she is staying at a friends house, so I make plans with my girl friends. we go out. DH goes to work at 6 (bar tender) I get a call at 7 from SD asking to borrow my "sparkle boots" they live in my closet and are a great haloween costume, I bought them to be a super hero last year, ( I am 29) she explain that her and her friend want to dress up and walk down town. We live in a small college town.
I know I've read other posts concerning the issues between SKs & pets, so I hope there are others who can relate. I am a dog lover, I've always had one & I always take great pains to make sure that my dog has great manners around kids. My last dog died a year ago & his behaviour was always being complimented. He was a little pug. Around the time my son turned 1, I decided to get a yorkie. I had no problems teaching my son & my dog how to treat each other.
This is great news! A boy who was abducted by his BM during a custody dispute with the father was found alive at his grandmother's house. The BM was charged with abduction and the grandmother was charged with aiding and abetting her daughter.
Must vent my frustration here. I have talked about bm letting my SS get away with anything, giving in to his con's and his whinning. Well No matter how I say it it seems that the whine comes out when someone is around. Well last night his sister wanted to stay at a friends house I let her she is 9 he is 6 he didn't get to sooooo.. I NEVER GET TO STAY ANY WHERE. boo hoo feel sorry for me. I didn't I told him YOur dad isnt ready for you to stay the night somewhere. pout pout stomp stomp boo hoo.
I still cant figure it out. My step daughter is nothing like my biological children except for my 5 year old who still whines and cries if he cant have something he wants. But my older children understand the word "no". Although they may not like it they rarely will argue. They might say please please...but they dont sass me or talk crap to me.
So FH and I are having a cook out later today with both our families so they can all meet each other. I'm really stressing right now and truth be told have been for the past couple of days. I've been preparing for this party for the past week...cleaning, shopping, etc. We're expecting about 40-45 people...and yes this is just immediate family...LOL...parents, grandparents, siblings, aunts, uncles and one cousin. I've been preparing food all day today and night...actually just laid down in bed not too long ago.
I'm a 32 yr old woman with no children of my own. No previous marriage, just 1 long relationship before my DH. I've been with DH for 6 years. We've lived together for 3.5, been married for 2.
I have 1 SD9 who is a good kid, with mostly normal kids problems (IE:rudeness, talking back, not picking up after herself). We have considered me a SM from very early on because DH and I lived together, and were always serious about or commitment to each other.
BM and SO have joint custody of SK so that means splitting the bill, which includes shoes, clothes, food, tuition fees, etc.
SO and I co-own a business but it's still in its start-up stage. I earn more than SO but we combine our earnings and both pay each other's bills (I also help him pay his debt before we got married).
SK is living with us 50% of the time. I hate the BM and I've no plans of talking to her. SK is OK.
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