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Results of Court Monday

Yay! I am very happy with the results of the court on Monday. The judge ruled that there must be a hearing to determine if BM should see SKids. She ruled that they only get phone privileges until September 21 when the hearing is. She stated that she could not let the kids see them if any of the things mentioned were happening.

In reply to our cps report...

BM has filed to see her kids. The court date is for Monday. She has asked for a week with the skids and that she be given reasonable visitation.

For those that have not read my last blog I will sum up.

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CPS is now involved.

Recently we have been having trouble with SS15. We have been monitoring the kids texts via an app on their phones. We have caught some crazy things.

First we catch that SS15 is smoking cigarettes. I saw some suspicious texts that led me to believe BM was providing them to him.

Why would SD13 do this?

I have not posted in a while it seems. I have been lurking and commenting on some things. I did get tired of posting such anger. Tonight I am posting disappointment.

SD13 has given me trouble for a long time. After going to intensive therapy and working with a psychiatrist, I am feeling much better. Tonight what happened made me very sad, not angry, as it normally would.

Still Not Feeling It

In the ongoing saga of "do I stay or do I go" I still am having the angry feelings. I am, however, trying to look past them. I am trying to just exist. That, however, is the problem. I don't want to just exist. It really bothers me that my feelings for him are just frozen. I don't look at him (SO) like I even like him anymore. IT REALLY BOTHERS ME!

The Good Feelings are Gone Already

With all of this phone deal, the old angry feelings I had are back.

Quick recap: I got my daughter a phone last weekend, right after SD12's birthday. SD12 got a phone for her birthday. SD12 thought that DD11's phone was nicer and told everyone but her dad that she no longer "felt special" for her birthday. SO was getting it from all angles, BM, BM's sister, BM's father and even SO's sister about how SD12 was sooooo upset. Hence, SO bought SD12 a phone like DD11. So now SD12 has 2 phones.

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Week 2 Results

OK, I know it is mid week, but I was hoping his behavior would get better. And it did!

Last week he forgot my daughter at school. He "lost track of time" and I got bent out of shape about it. OK, she was fine and not even freaked out. I was very hesitant about my decision to stay after that, but he has picked himself back up, dusted himself off and kept going on his great path!

Weekend 1 results...

Well, it was an interesting weekend at my house. It seems that Skids could do nothing to impress SO. I have noticed that since I am not saying much about them, he is noticing what they do more. I take care of mine, he does help, and I appreciate it. I do not parent his kids, I have just started asking them once to do something, say a chore, then if they don't do it, I tell their dad. He takes care of it.

The Winds of Change

I know this site is for venting, however, when happy stuff happens, it should be mentioned too I think.

2 days after BF and skids came home from vacation, he sent me a text asking, "if we get the house cleaned up and in order, what do you think about seeing if things will work better in that environment"

:jawdrop:

Yo Yo Update

I found out yesterday that I was approved for an apartment and there will be one available in around 2 weeks. BF is still in Florida so when we had our morning call I told him that I would be out before next month.

His statement was, "Scary..."

Me thinks that maybe he is realizing what he is up against. My friends have been saying that I will end up making dinners for them after I move out.

I think not.

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