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okay.. here it goes in a nutshell... I used to have a myspace account till last night. I have a tracker on my webpage that tells me who visits my page, what time and day and so forth. I check my account and I see my husbands ex wife had been looking at it for some time..it doesnt really bother me much because there is nothing that I have to hide so who cares right?
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL ,HOPE THAT WE ALL GET WHAT WE WANT THIS YEAR...IN EVERYTHING THAT WE DO AND TRY TO DO......
NETTIE
Wow, I thought I was alone, however, I wonder if there is truly any answer to this nightmare, other than walk away? I have been married for 5 years to 2nd husband. I still have never met his now 13y/o D or his parents or his X. H & his X were separated when we met, divorced 6 months after we started dating. My H said everything was fine. One week after we were married, the hell began. As I write, I recall the beginning of the insanity and lies and I realize there is no end to this hell. I have to walk away. It is not going to change or get any better.
From Dawn and the staff of StepTalk.org (her husband), Happy New Year everybody!
I listened to these words last night and thought how beautiful, and I wanted to share with all of you. To those who need faith, support, love or just a little break. Happy New Year to all of you with all the love in my heart, read on...
My DH and I are trying to have a baby. Just started trying but wanted to get some info. I was wondering what everyone's experiences were when BM and skids found out you were expecting. Also, how did you go about the annoucement? Did you let the kids tell the BM if they wanted or did you do something more official. Our BM is bipolar. She has not really bothered us in a long while but you just never know with people like her. I honestly do not care what her reation will be, however, I just wanted to hear a few stories so I can kind of be prepared for whatever she may throw our way.
Thank you to all who responded the other day. I realize now how silly it was that I even asked what we should do. I really appreciate all of you on this site and how you can make things so much clearer by giving the outside view. Here's how it played out...
So after DH got BM to admit she does not have a license on Tuesday night she still wanted to come over and show him her paperwork anyway. DH said fine, because we wanted to see just what the court order said, if she even had one.
But I have reached the boiling point again and I really don't want to start a fight with my husband right now. You see, he and I are the babysitters for our grandson when SD works on the weekend or if she works in the evenings when daycare is closed. The problem is, she has been working mostly evenings, so we have been babysitting a lot. Tomorrow, she is working 12-5, but she doesn't know if daycare is open. (I would have asked long ago about that, but that is another story.) Now, DH has invited her and her boyfriend, and 2 other couples over for New Year's Eve.
My husband and I are newlyweds. I don't know how to deal with his X. She is very manipulative it extemely uncomfortable when we have to deal with her. I have gotten to the point where I can't stand to even look at her. I think I have said a total of three words to her EVER. She doesn't attempt to talk to me either. I do know from being with my husband that she is the type of person that if she knows something bothers you, then she will purposly do it, she is very spiteful. She lies constantly my husband has sent me some of the e-mails that she has sent to him, they are all lies.
So my bf's ex told him yesterday that she was going to move and take their 2 year old daughter with her, saying that she needs to be by her family meaning her mom. However, they have never gone to court to determine who has custodial custody. So my question is can she even do that? She has thrown out the idea of a month at one house and then a month at the other. But that can't be good for the child, right? Then when she starts preschool the ex presumes that their daughter would go to preschool in her town, meaning that she would have given herself custodial custody.
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