So my soon to be SD is now approaching the age of 2. And seeing how her life has changed since I have come in it about nine months ago, my fiancé and I have determined it is time to take the BM to court. It really isn't about him wanting to see his daughter more, he sees her pretty much every day. It is mainly about the lack of structure. As it goes now SD is with us Thursday thru Sunday and during the other days while BM is at work. If fiancé is at work at the same time as BM he has to arrange for some sort of child care and pay for all of the costs.

I haven't seen it. SD saw it...she said she didn't like it. Normally she'll elaborate on the story and why or why she didn't like a movie..but she couldn't explain why for this movie. She said it was something about a stepmom, a bio mom, a son, then the daughter finds another man to marry who has a daughter from a previous relationship...

Has anyone seen it? Can you explain the family dynamics and possibly why SD didn't like it? I'm assuming a lot of the characters hit home ...or just disturbed her?

How does one deal with harboring an intense amount of hatred towards an individual; one whose presence is eternal to this lifetime unless a drastic decision is made to rule out the one person you truly love and are in love with to rid your life of the one you despise. One can find comfort in the misfortunes towards this individual, justifying it as karma for all the hell inflicted upon others.

For anyone who has not followed my blog, I met a wonderful man after being divorced 7 years - he has been widowed 5 years. We have lived together 8 months now, and my 3 children do not wamt to be living here.
His older son has moved into a flat with his girlfriend, so we are left in this new house with just his (nearly 17 yr old & my nearly 15 yr old) daughters.