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SD After Wreaking Havoc is "Over It"! No Apology Offered!

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Submitted by LONGTIME SM on Tue, 08/11/2009 - 1:16pm

DH has been pushing for a meeting. When he calls SD 32 about this meeting she states that she doesn't want to discuss the "show incident". She states "I'm over that. What I want to discuss is the fact that SM will not let BDs sleep over at my house!"

I assume she realizes that there is no way that she will look like anything other than an over-reactive fool if she discusses the show incident so she has now zeroed in on a new area of complaint!

My DH and manipulative adult stepkids are trying to get me to meet to resolve differences

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Submitted by LONGTIME SM on Tue, 08/11/2009 - 12:59pm

Our adult SS (35) has barely spoken to his father or myself since DH's mother died and they (SS 35 and SD 32) found out that they were not in the will and that they could not guilt or manipulate their father into giving them his inheritance (pitiful amount that it was). SD 32 was equally as vindictive but kept talking to DH off and on (but was openly rude and dismissive of me) so that we would continue babysitting her two children.

ok new baby is here and I need some advice

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Submitted by artsymom on Tue, 08/11/2009 - 12:39pm

Our new baby arrived finally, and he is fantastic. Im so happy and thankful that I am trying to not stress mye4elf out about the skids. Typically at the end of every week I start to get emotional and really stressed, knowing that in a few hours the skids will be here, destroying our home, manipulating my H and terrorising my children. So I get real grouchy and on the verge of tears. With my new child I want to turn over a new leaf, good karma and so forth. How do I do this when I despise one of my skids. I have tried to be nice and caring but this child is honestly not human.

now that I know how to post...here goes

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Submitted by michiganmom on Tue, 08/11/2009 - 11:32am

So this is the story....I knew my husband in high school..we had a child together, but didn't stay together. so he had no relationship with our daughter for 23 years. In the mean time, we both remarried, and he had 3 children and I ended up in 2 marriages, both producing children. Well, I was in my second marriage for 16 years but it was abusive. Verbally, emotionally and sometimes physically. Well, he ended up getting a divorce, and called to get into our daughters life. Well.....that conversation lead to more and now we are together.

ok, new here

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Submitted by michiganmom on Tue, 08/11/2009 - 11:24am

So not sure how to go about this. I am not fond of my step children. I think that they use my husband and he doesn't see it. He alows them to run all over me, and I'm just basically a figure here in the house that everybody walks around or over. I have spent so much money on these kids and this family...it really upsets me....thre is so much to tell you......just need to move on..if I can't be happy I need to move on.....cut my loses....my step children really hate me and I can't find anything that I like about them.

SD12 thinks my sister is 'annoying'

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Submitted by Manda on Tue, 08/11/2009 - 6:02am

So my FH and his kids and I were on vacation a couple weeks ago and SD12 I guess told her truth and said that she thought my sister (9 YO) was annoying. I was SOOO pissed! It's still bugging the hell out of me and I'm finding myself to be having more animosity and hatred toward SD! I'm still pissed at FH too for not really standing up for my sister or my family for that fact. If I could've been totally honest at that point in time I would've told SD ten ways that she's annoying to me!

Update-Lazy SD Princesses

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Submitted by RB on Tue, 08/11/2009 - 2:14am

DH can't stand the Lazy SD Princesses (20 & 25) either, but insists on giving them time to save up for first and last months rent for their apartment. I think I've been waiting long enough! They've had plenty of time to save up-years. When I came home from work today the kitchen sink was full of dishes, the cat had been left in the house, and the place was a mess. I'm getting down right B****y and my DH is tired of hearing me B**** about the Lazy SD Princesses so now I can't even hold a conversation with him about them and their actions. Lovely. Just lovely.

I was dreading swim lessons all day

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Submitted by mother goose on Mon, 08/10/2009 - 11:51pm

My DH is working out of town, Mon and Wed. are SS6 swim lessons and bm was going to be there! This girl hates me! She really does, why? I have no idea, probably cuz I'm mom 6 days of the week to her son. Anyways, SS6 and I go to swim lessons, bm shows up 15 min late (go mom). SS6 said hi and started spazzing out, normal behavior for him when bm is around.

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