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Submitted by schrob01 on Fri, 08/21/2009 - 8:53am

what my house would be like if i allowed DH to run the show? last nite we were talking to our neighbors & my DH asked the man nextdoor if he wanted a puppy, becuz we have some puppies we're giving away. Neighbor's wife says NO! Neighbor tells my DH yes, that he's the man of the house. DH makes the comment,"I wish I was the man of the house at my house." I told him that the neighbor doesn't know what he's talking about, his wife just ALLOWS him to THINK that he runs the show, but really she's the shot-caller.

what we need to be doing...

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Submitted by schrob01 on Thu, 08/20/2009 - 9:07am

is praying for our SKs. I know that it's difficult to do when you're angry at them, but guess what, it's ok to be angry with them & not like them very much, we are allowed to be angry as long as we don't seek revenge or plot bad things against our SKs. As I told you, me & my Bio kids have been instructed to pray for SD for the next 2 weeks and we've been doing so faithfully.

SD never coming home!

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Submitted by schrob01 on Wed, 08/19/2009 - 5:25pm

I just want to THANK GOD & all of the people that have been praying the devil out of my house. I am not saying that SD is the devil but one must understand that I have been dealing with principles & principalities. Please don't misunderstand, I have not prayed for this child to stay away, I have only prayed for God's perfect will to be done in this situation, whatever that might be. I have, however, asked the Lord to change her or remove her far from me.

Do we have lives?

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Submitted by schrob01 on Fri, 08/14/2009 - 9:15am

I'm not putting anyone down here and I'm including myself here when I ask this question, do we have lives OUTSIDE of what is going on with our SKid issues? I look forward to reading what everyone's going thru here at the website. I can't stay away to be honest. It helps to know that we are all going thru this TOGETHER. But this morning after reading some of the entries, I thought to myself, boy, all we ever do is complain about our situations. Or sometimes I'll read a blog & the person will state that she is getting ready to marry her BF but.....

Today is the first day that I cried

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Submitted by schrob01 on Thu, 08/13/2009 - 1:38pm

since my DH has been gone. I feel very alone & pregnant right now. I have been pretty strong & able to make decisions w/out being emotional about them, knowing that they are for the best but I believe that DH's issues run so much deeper than what appears to be the problem. This a serious Co-Dependant/Enabler relationship he has w/his daughter & his mother & I know that there is nothing i can do about it.

serenity

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Submitted by schrob01 on Wed, 08/12/2009 - 3:13pm

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot change, the courage to change the things that I can & the WISDOM to know the difference.

I pondered this little prayer last night & what it means to me & how i would apply it to my life. I accept that I will never be able to change my SD or the way my DH relates to her.

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