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Do your bm's constanly change their phone numbers??? kinda OT

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Submitted by msg1986 on Fri, 08/22/2014 - 1:31pm

Dh got a call last night from a random number and when he answered it was Bm and she let him know this is her new number. In the 3 1/2 years Dh and I have been together this is like the 5th mobile phone number she's had, what's up with this? I have a few relatives that do this too and I don't know what it's about, maybe they are all drugs dealers?? lol. It's just a weird concept to me to change phone numbers so many times, don't companies charge you for this?? My first cell phone was when I turned 18 and I've only have 3 mobile phone numbers since then. Is this normal???

wtf DH!!!!

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Submitted by msg1986 on Thu, 08/07/2014 - 4:12pm

ughhhh... Bm just called Dh asking if we could "babysit" ss tonight. Dh asked her why and if it's an emergency and she says it's not a emergency but that she needs a babysitter because she's going to a fallout boy concert tonight... yes, this is the same chick calling asking for help with school supplies because she's struggling financially. I guess fallout boy tickets take precedence over supplies for your kid? wtf.

School starts in August and so do the requests

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Submitted by msg1986 on Thu, 07/31/2014 - 4:39pm

Bm called Dh today asking for help with school supplies. This chick really has it twisted. Dh 1.pays you max support 2.gets NO credit for the time he gets Ss (we get him every weekend and you'd think a mother would want some time with her kid but nope, she loves the weekend babysitter) 3.we provide ALL transportation because she refuses to meet dh for exchange and 4.she's a jerk ALL the time 5. she claims Ss EVERY year and gets like 5k back and she wants to call asking for help?

Food issues and skids

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Submitted by msg1986 on Thu, 07/31/2014 - 2:02pm

notastepyet's blog got me thinking about skids and food. I know kids in general can be picky but it seems like such an on going issue with the kids on this site. I am beginning to think the issue has a lot to do with wanting attention and/or trying to see how far you'll let them go.

How to deal with in laws that push their religion on you?

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Submitted by msg1986 on Fri, 07/25/2014 - 10:55am

My MIL, StepFIL, SIL and SIL's Spouse are all very religious-non denominational Christians to be exact. Lately they seem to be on some sort of crusade to get us to go to church with them. The thought that they are concerned for our filthy souls (can you feel my sarcasm??) is nice however I've explained to MIL that I do no agree with the ways of their church. I actually used to attend this same church but after witnessing the gross homophobia the pastor exhibits, I stopped attending. I have faith and I do believe in God however I don't believe in hate speech, gay bashing etc.

What is your opinion on how CS should be treated if non-custodial has another child?

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Submitted by msg1986 on Wed, 07/09/2014 - 4:30pm

So here in NM they take into consideration if the non-custodial has another child and will usually lower CS. What Dh was advised was that he has to file a motion and then a review will happen and then they'll take Dd into consideration. We decided however not to ask for the review and just wait until the next review happens(they review him every 3 years and they ask about if Dh has other children on these forms) just because it's not that important to us at this point.

Do you think the judge will enforce a meet spot or for Bm to pick up ss?

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Submitted by msg1986 on Tue, 07/08/2014 - 1:35pm

In my previous blog I wrote about how I was thinking Dh's CS was based off time w/ skid and it's not. Basically Dh is paying max CS, has ss every weekend and picks up ss almost an hour away every friday and drops him off almost an hour away every sunday because bm refuses to meet him half way or pick up skid from our house.

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