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Is this PAS?

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Last weekend when Dh picked up SS6, Ss was very sad and mentioned a couple of times that he missed his mommy. Ss has never said this before and during visitation, the only time SS will talk about his mom is in passing like if we see something that he's seen with his mother he'll say, "I seen that when I was with my mommy." Dh and I thought it was weird that he was being sad about not seeing his mom but shrugged it off considering he was a little down but nothing extreme.

Ot/Dd's babysitter asking to take Dd to the Y-need advice

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So currently Dh's cousin's wife babysits Dd(almost 14 mo's) and I love her to death and trust her dearly. Well, recently, Said cousin & wife began going to the Y and I guess they have a daycare there and so the babysitter has asked me if it would be okay if she takes Dd to the Y also. I guess the babysitter is wanting to start going sometimes in the AM and sometimes Dh's cousin is off from work during the day and they like to go in the morning when he doesn't have work.

Is it normal to pull your kids teeth out?

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So last year when Ss got his first loose tooth, Bm called Dh and made a huge deal about demanding that if he "lost" his tooth with us, that dh "better" give it to her. It was stupid. Dh basically let her know that he didn't have an issue with giving her the tooth but she didn't need to call him acting so rude and asked her if she could act like a civil person. Bm didn't like that very much and hung up on Dh and that was the end of that. The following weekend Ss told us his mom pulled his tooth out before he came to our house because she didn't want him to lose his tooth with his dad.

Vent from this weekend-Ss and his food issues

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This weekend Ss6 seemed to regressed again in the food Dept. I feel so bad but when he gets like this I get so annoyed and I want to just tell him to go to his room so Dd and I can eat our food in peace. I'm just so tired of the dramatic crying when something is served that isn't his "favorite".

OT/Anyone heard of a lip tie?

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So a few nights ago I was playing with Dd and I noticed when she smiled that her top teeth/gumline looked a little weird so I flipped her top lip up and I noticed that there is a piece of skin that runs from between her 2 top teeth to her gum line. I got concerned and started googling and I came across something called a "lip tie".

Blog Hogging/DD's screaming *update

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I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who responded to my post regarding Dd and her tantrums/screaming. I showed Dh this post last night and we decided to mash everything up and test it out lol. When she screams/throws tantrum we're going to look her the eyes and firmly tell her no and then ignore her behavior to show that she will not get any reaction/reward for behaving that way... We'll see how it goes-we're testing it out beginning last night and I let the babysitter know as well. This morning she did pretty well.

OT/Need advice in regards to my screaming baby!

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So Dd is 13 mo's and she has recently developed a habit of screaming when she wants something, wants to be picked up, basically having a tantrum and it's driving me CRAZY!!! So far Dh and I have just been ignoring her because I've read that if you don't react that they will stop but she seems to be getting worse. The babysitter even asked me today what we're doing at home about it so she can try to do that same thing because she's now doing it there and that concerns me because I love the babysitter and I would hate for the babysitter quit on me because my child is acting like an animal!

Update: Dh talked to the lawyer/drama with bm

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So Dh finally spoke with the lawyer (She was out for Xmas) and she said from reading the letter Bm sent her, it seems like she is scared. Dh said the lawyer just kept saying to herself "I wonder why she's so scared... I wish I knew what she was scared of.. " Pssh, I could have answered that, she's scared that her big a$$ tax return she gets every year is going to be interrupted. Dh said she seemed baffled with the letter Bm wrote because when the lawyer talked to her, she said she seemed oh so nice/cooperative. :::eyeroll::: Overall though, the lawyer said she isn't worried.

Question about documention

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For the past few years we've been keeping documention of any interactions w/ Bm. Being that it appears that Bm is going to be difficult with this upcoming court date, Dh is wanting to share his documention with the judge, that is if they will allow it. With that being said, Dh and I have both written in this book that we have. Dh's entries for example are written in the form of " I dropped off ss" whereas mine are written in the form of "dh dropped off SS". Does this matter?

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