I was just curious if any of you have the desire to vaction with just your dh/so and the biochild you have together and if so do you do it? I haven't really voiced this anywhere else, i'm just curious how ya'll do things.

So i have a funny story for you ladies... As I've mentioned on here before, my MIL is also a Bm, a horrible one at that. I'd like to write that after years of being a Bm that she is better now but nope she is still bitter that her marriage to FIL ended and is still hates SMIL for no reason. Well, MIL had 3 kids (including my DH) w/ FIL and through the years after MUCH PAS'ing, Dh is really the only one who has a close relationship with his dad, SM and his half little sisters. Dh's sister is very standoffish with her stepmom and doesn't considering the girls FIL had w/ SMIL her sisters.

So Bm went out of town last week and so instead of dropping Ss off with Bm, we dropped him with his nana. When we got there Bm's stepdad came out and waved a friendly wave to me as usual ( he's a really nice guy) and greeted Dh. Bm's mom then came out of the garage and waved to me also . Dh was out of the car and I was inside w/ Dd so I couldn't hear anything going on. Next thing I know Dh is opening the door to where Dd is and showing her to them. They fussed over her saying how cute she was and then we left. It was a little awkward but they were polite as they always are.

Lately dh will text Bm and she won't respond but will call over and over right after he sends the message. Last week when he text her asking her when where he was meeting her to drop ss off she called him and he needed to know so he just answered and she told him that her text is "broken" and he needed to talk to her on the phone. Bm has an iPhone (we know this because the text messages show she's using an iPhone) and ss is always talking about how he plays on her phone so I doubt her text is broken.