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So this weekend when we take Fss home, BM literally shoves Fss in the house and shuts the door and and from what I could see from the car starts screaming at FDH. FDH just shakes his head and turns away and walks back to the car. When FDH got back in the car He says that she was losing her sh*t because she called him once yesterday but didn't leave a message or text, and because FDH doesn't accept calls from her anymore because of this kind of behavior he didn't know why she called.

it's been quiet as crickets...

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So it's been about 4 days since FDH and I sat down with FMIL and talked to her about boundaries and we haven't heard a peep. She had excuse after excuse about her behavior and kept mentioning that I, Msg1986 was brought up different than her and her son-my fdh and she just cares about us... whatever, I was a little offended, like we're okay you're not.. but again whatev... I feel like she got the point but I feel like we'll have issues again in the future but I feel good that I was able to let her know she isnt to come into my house and disrespect me or my home again.

This shit just keep rollllling in...

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FMIL called FDH yesterday, which I expected, asking if she could pick up FSS4 because as you all now know she works in BMs city on fridays. FDH of course shoots down her offer because of the cray cray and she flips her wig asking him why he's doing this to her and no one goes to see her and she doesn't know what she did that we don't go to see her anymore and she just wants to pick up FSS to at least spend time with him. FDH proceeds to tell her nahhh you seen him on wednesday when you picked him up from BM.

Another FMIL issue...

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If you've read my past blog you are aware of FMIL issue... well today FMIL calls FDH and tells him in a smug voice, "I just want you to know that I went and picked up FSS4 from BM yesterday and took him to see a movie."... Mind you BM lives about 45-50 minutes away from FMIL-def not down the street and she only works in BM's city on Fridays so she def wasn't IN the area...

We got Fss

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Fdh is on his way home WITH fss. I knew Bm wouldn't give dare try to withholding visitation... God forbid she give up her weekend to smoke 12 packs of ciggs, get smashed and give a few blow jobs for some ink.

We heard from bowel movement...

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hmpf, we heard from Bowel movement. She texted fdh last night saying, "I talk to fss and he says something is wrong, can you please call to talk to him." geez, parent your own kid when he's with you. Am I petty for thinking it stupid and unnecessary for her to try to get fdh to call to discipline fss when he's with her (he's only with us during the weekend), I mean parent your kid when he's with you... Fdh phone was off all day yesterday so he didn't see this message until about 11pm... I don’t know what he's going to do.

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