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Bm texts again...

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Submitted by msg1986 on Fri, 06/05/2015 - 10:05am

Bm text Dh. If you read my last post you'll know that Bm's last correspondence with dh 2 wks. ago ended w/ her texting that she was no longer "co-parenting" with dh and if he wanted to know what was going on w/ Ss, that he'd need to ask him himself. This all resulted from Dh telling Bm that he wanted exchanges to happen at their places of address NOT at whatever location she decided to be. Well she text yesterday saying "I'm having Ss tested for ADHD". I guess she forgot that she wasn’t telling Dh anything about Ss anymore? Dh responded to her with "What?

This past weekends convos between Dh and Bm...

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Submitted by msg1986 on Tue, 05/26/2015 - 2:10pm

So this past weekend Dh had 2 text convo's with Bm where he was able to put her in her place and after years of Bm's abuse it was oh so nice to witness.

The first event was this:
Bm: My parents are going out of town and I'm house-sitting. I'll be at my house today but we'll be at my mom’s the next 2 weekends.

Dh: And?

Bm: Obviously Ss will need to be dropped off there...(when Dh showed me this I knew that she realized that the CO does not specify a drop off location for Ss-which I KNEW was going to come up)

Skid Rooms

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Submitted by msg1986 on Tue, 05/12/2015 - 1:09pm

This post is directed at those with Skids that have every weekend or every other weekend visitation... Do you think it's important to have a room for them at your house? Why/why not?

need quick advice

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Submitted by msg1986 on Fri, 05/01/2015 - 4:10pm

So Bm just text stated that Ss is sick and now has fever and is pretty much telling Dh that she is going to keep Ss for this weekend. Dh's phone died so the text got said "your phone is dead, so im going to assume that i'm keeping him and you can have my weekend at the end of the month" Dh doesn't want to miss his weekend with Ss but at the same time he doesn't want him to come over sick. Advice?
Is it stupid for Dh to just agree to this? I guess my fear is this turning into a "oh he's sick" to try to w/h visitation in future.

Opinions...

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Submitted by msg1986 on Fri, 05/01/2015 - 11:39am

So this week Bm has texted randomly a few times and I'm curious what you guys think. I'm probably waaaay overthinking this BUT with Bm, you never know, so I'm just curious what ya'll think.

Insurance question

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Submitted by msg1986 on Tue, 04/28/2015 - 4:50pm

So Bm randomly text Dh advising him that her new husband is adding Ss6 to his insurance because she lost her medicaid after she got married. Dh currently covers Ss on his insurance thru work and Bm was using Medicaid as the secondary. My question is, if stepdad adds Ss to his insurance plan, who is primary? Does it matter? Do we need to do anything? Being that she lost medicaid, I'm guessing she is having her Dh add Ss to try to avoid a copay but I'm just wondering if we have anything to worry about?

Bm trying to have a baby!

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Submitted by msg1986 on Thu, 03/26/2015 - 10:26am

I seen on Bm's FB that she posted this long post about how she and her now Dh are going to try to have a baby and are asking for well wishes/prayers, because her endometriosis makes it difficult to get preggers... I about fell over in excitement/happiness! lol I HOPE and PRAY that Bm is able to conceive. I feel like it will help chill her out with her strange "I have top priority" attitude she has toward Dh.

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