In my previous blog I wrote about how I was thinking Dh's CS was based off time w/ skid and it's not. Basically Dh is paying max CS, has ss every weekend and picks up ss almost an hour away every friday and drops him off almost an hour away every sunday because bm refuses to meet him half way or pick up skid from our house.

With that being said, I've heard that sometimes that if non custodial is doing something for a long time (for example, maybe paying bm a higher amnt than what's supposed to be paid) that the judge will say "well you've done is thus far so you can keep doing it." Do any of you know if this is true? I guess my concern is that Dh will take Bm to court to try to establish that she either meet Dh half way and the judge will say that Dh has done all transportation thus far so he needs to continue doing it. What do you think?

A little background: Dh's never been arrears, pays CS on time, has Ss every weekend, pays Ss medical, and up to this point provides all transporation for pick up/drop off.

Do you think the judge would tell him tough luck???