School starts in August and so do the requests
Bm called Dh today asking for help with school supplies. This chick really has it twisted. Dh 1.pays you max support 2.gets NO credit for the time he gets Ss (we get him every weekend and you'd think a mother would want some time with her kid but nope, she loves the weekend babysitter) 3.we provide ALL transportation because she refuses to meet dh for exchange and 4.she's a jerk ALL the time 5. she claims Ss EVERY year and gets like 5k back and she wants to call asking for help? Dh just asked her last weekend if she could start meeting him for exchange and she had a crappy attitude and responded with "whatever"- no answer just whatever, like his request was outrageous.
Thankfully Dh told her no way, that's what support is for. Bm then started threatening to take him to court. I told Dh, good, she'll be doing him a favor by forcing him to finally set up an exchange point and they can also factor in Dd. Some people... ugh...
to top it off, dh said she was being sweet as pie... lol. She's such an idiot. You don't act like a jerk ALL year and then expect favors. wtf.
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He should have added 'I more
He should have added 'I more than 'help' with the cost of the kid's school supplies by paying for all the transportation cost every weekend'.
Omg good point! I'm
Omg good point! I'm definately going to tell dh to use the verbage when she asks again because we all know she will and start threatening visitation. I'm so sick of this overly entitled person already.
BM is ALWAYS a jerk unless
BM is ALWAYS a jerk unless she wants something. -rolls eyes-
Your DH should go back to court & get CS modified & a meeting spot & a better custody agreement.
lol must be in the Bm from
lol must be in the Bm from hell handbook! For some reason they think if they act like a nice person for 10 sec they'll get what they want.
You're absolutely right, her taking Dh back to court will actually be doing us a favor. It will most certainly put an end to SOME of the drama that we deal with.
When BM threatened us with
When BM threatened us with going back to court over something that hey both agreed on in the first place, SO told her "Go ahead. I Can't wait to get a few things changed as well. Save me the money that it takes to file." She shut up so quick and tried to plead with him to reconsider.
I'm in NM and here the only
I'm in NM and here the only time you split costs is when you're 50/50 so Dh is no obligated to pay anything. She certainly has the means to buy Ss his supplies, it's not our fault she handles her money poorly. My grandfather always used to say 2+2 does not equal 5-bm clearly does not understand that.
Exact same with ours until we
Exact same with ours until we were awarded full custody. ALWAYS a B until she needed a favor. Outsiders will say 'Do it for the SS'. But they don't know all the times you have been screwed by her. All the money you have paid for crap and you won't be buying part of the school supplies. That IS what the CS is for. Tell DH to let he know he won't be able to. If she threatens court, who cares. It's a bluff. She won't pay for a lawyer to get 40 dollars worth of glue and paper.
You are ABSOLUTELY right
You are ABSOLUTELY right about what outsiders will say. Dh's coworker started in on him about how he should just do it for his son. what these people don't get is that with women like this, you do ONE thing and then it's MORE MORE MORE. They aren't rational people that will be thankful that you went above and beyond, it will turn into an attitude like 'you owe me'!!! ughh..It disgusts me so much.
Oooh yeah, I'm SURE she's bluffing. She told dh last night that her caseworker told her to file a motion and she'll get more because she's not working. Well I've talked to CS AND I pulled guidelines last night and it clearly says that once the kid turns 6 they DO hold you at min wage... Ss turned 6 last week so I'm sure her caseworker told her that they would raise however i'm sure the caseworker forgot to mention the free ride is over as of Ss's bday. Bm is a waste of space and breath. I don't understand why she thinks she doesn't have to work and everyone should pay her way... wtf..
lol what an idiot. You guys
lol what an idiot. You guys should have say 'sure, we bought the clothes anyway so bring over so we can donate them and at least get a tax right off." lol.
Yeah, It's like common sense would tell you that if you're a jerk 99% of the time that the person you're being a jerk to isn't going to help you that 1% that you decide to be nice and it's only because you're asking for a favor.