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So we got nothing in court

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Nothing bad, nothing good... Just nothing.

The judge told BM's lawyer to draw up a final agreement... They didn't. So now he told our lawyer to. So that is it. The end. No Christmas break. Nothing about spring break or summer break or anything. Just write what they discussed in court in APRIL. Which was: sure, dad can have spring break and "part of summer".

Our lawyer said he is going to get it done asap and then file an immediate motion to modify. Yay... Merry Christmas to us.

I am so bitter...

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SO and woke up this morning, after I get out of the shower he shows me a FB pic that SS is tagged in. It's BM with her 3 kids (only 1 is SO's) piled on the floor saying "starting off Christmas break right". Yeah B!tch. You stay home as we are up and out the door by 6:30 am everyday to WORK. Remember work?? It's that thing you are going to have to do in 3 months when Alimony is up }:)

Feeling Defeated

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We finally got the court transcripts back from the last hearing. What was discussed in the side room didn't all get brought up in court when they tabled the hearing with the judge telling them to figure out the best parenting plan together. Winter break, although discussed privately was not brought up with the judge. Just Spring break and "part" of summer.

Hearing is still moving forward with the judge and our attorney tomorrow. Still not a peep from BM or BM's lawyer. SO sounded so broken. I just wish there was something I could do.

What are the chances?

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We have been trying to secure visitation with SS for months now for 1/2 of the winter break. BM has refused to send him. We went back to lawyers, they have ordered transcripts of the last hearing where it was agreed that he would spend 1/2 with us and 1/2 with her. SO and BM were to work out the dates. Since BM is refusing, we got with the lawyers and we had a hearing Monday that got rescheduled to Thursday. Break starts tomorrow.

To email or Not to email

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I am not saying that I have always had a good relationship with my kids SM. In fact, I down right hated her for a LONG time. She was like 21 when she got together and knocked up by my ex. I saw her as this stupid little twit that was always interjecting and trying to take over. My ex stopped communicating with me and she did it all. It has been 5 years since they got together and over the years things improved. We now have a pretty solid relationship, share pictures and tidbits about the kids all the time. Even little jokes back and forth. She has asked my advice on personal matters, etc.

Out of State Visitation-- Sorry longer than I planned!

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Hey everyone! It has been a long time, I was on here for quite a while some years back and have sense been divorced and am in a wonderful relationship with an amazingly supportive guy and he has 2 kids. I need some advice on how to give advice and this is the BEST place I know for it!

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