Court is in 19 days. Whoo Hoo! 

Previously we believed BM was making up illnesses. However, it was discovered that one may not be so made up. While neither the cardiologist that he had been going to, or the electrophysiologist that we were aware he went to made this diagnosis a 3rd cardiology clinic did. Apparently back in 2017 he was given this POTS diagnosis. Now, we were told SS was fine by everyone else, including his primary doctor. It took a lot of digging on my part to find out that this doctor even saw him. 

Talked to our lawyer last night. They bumped the court date one more day- but at least it should stay that date. We briefly went over some of the things going on. I told him about SS14's school principal and how she told us that any further questions about SS should go to the school's attorney. Our lawyer said "Are you F'ing kidding me?? Please tell me you have that in writting and have the lawyers contact info?!?" - I told him that I did and I would forward that e-mail. He said "I will handle this BS now." 

We finally got SS14's medical records from his primary. The office manager there used to coach SS and was not happy to hear that BM was acting like such a horrible B. We told her that we had been trying to find out who SS's doctor was for years and BM refused to tell us. We also told her about the false reports she made at the school on SS's IEP. She talked us through all kinds of things and then let us know that a referral had been sent out to a hospital for an Elhors-Danlos consult.

My ex (DD and DS's father) got orders to the west coast. SM let me know via e-mail and asked if we could talk about a new custody plan. No problem! Took 2-3 quick emails back and forth. They wrote it up and we both signed and notarized it. Done and done. No fuss, no issues, no arguements. 

Then we have BM... The never ending drama. The acusations, the lies, the court and lawyer fees. How is it that it is so easy to work with one ex and so crazy to work with the other?