DH filed for the motion to modify Pro Se on Friday. The hearing is scheduled for Oct 31st which is really fast based on our previous expriences. One of our many concerns right now is that BM's attorney will push back the hearing. The schedule right now is great because it will be before the holiday's and if by some miracle we are awarded holiday time, we will actually get  him for the first time in 6 years!! 

Since BM's attorney refuses to sign the journal entry ordered by the judge for summer visitation and our lawyer obviously charges us for every attempt to get his signature. I called the courthouse to find out our next step to make BM's lawyer do what he was supposed to. The clerk was very upset to hear that we had not gotten the journal entry in and that this has been dragging along since 2014. I did my best southern belle (mid west people seem to love that) and gave her a brief synopsys of what was happening. She told us to write a letter to the judge.

BM2 told DH that she was fine if DH picked up SS after school today- vebally after we did a police welfare check on him a couple of days ago. It had been 2 weeks since SS responded to him and BM wouldn't respond either. 

BM will not confirm what she said writting- via text or email.

What are the chances that this is a set up because all we actually have in writting is a "no, you can't see him" from a month ago. 

BM1 has been quiet for the last 5 months. Not a word from her. Suddenly she FB messages me (We aren't friends but you can still message). So here goes:

BM1: Please give me SS's #, I have been trying to reach DH several times. ** Note, DH was working last night until 1am. I didn't even talk to him yesterday.**

Me: I will pass your request to DH.  SS18's number hasn't changed in 5 years though, I know we have given it to you in the past **Note, I know I shouldn't have said it, but I feel froggy again today**