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Brag Time!

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I have no kids in my house for the next 6 days! Yep... me and SO and all the us time we need! Brewery tours after work, dinner with OUR friends, R rated movies, loud sex- whenever we want! 

Sorry, my kids are hitting puberty and are real azzholes lately- love them but HOLY CRAP roller coaster emotions are insane! SS17 (special needs) moves in to our house in about 6 weeks so this is our vacation before that happens and we never have a kid free house again...  We are going to have to start planning a yearly vacation for just the 2 of us. 

Mother's Day

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I know it is a ways off but I always try to do something small for my kids stepmom for Mother's day. This year they will be with their dad and stepmom the weekend before so I need to send something up with them. I usually get her something  like bath and body works basket, or Yankee candle does fun things... Last year I got her a flower pot (She likes to have them). I am just kind of at a loss this year on what to get. 

What would you have liked as a token from your skids on mother's day? I hate being generic and could use ideas! 

Took SS to the doctor

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SS, like the good little slave boy he is, told mommy dearest that SO was taking him to the doctor. BM was PISSED! Started blowing up SO's phone, he didn't respond. Started blowing up SS's phone, he was texting her. Aparently she told him to be sneaky but take a picture of the building when we got there. He did.

Immunizations

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A idea that came into my last thread about BM refusing to discuss the HPV vaccine, was that since SS13 is in our state visiting, we just get the shot. I am pretty sure it is a series, even for boys. He will be back this summer and then at Christmas so I am sure we can get it all done.

Court Date and Still Withholding Medical

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Well, we got the court date for custody to be established! We are super excited about it. We went back and forth with our lawyer and BM's lawyer over her refusal to give us the name of SS's doctor. They wouldn't give it up. They said that SO had it and they weren't giving it again. We don't have it, we never had it, they couldn't tell us when it was provided. BM's lawyer said that SO was harassing her. So, we stopped all e-mails.

Would this be considered contempt? Or something else?

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I am calling the layer again this morning. BM is refusing to tell us who YSS's doctor is and who diagnosed him with Elhors Danlos (Failry debilitating autoimmune disease that there is no way in hell that he actually has). The court order granting joint medical and legal custody has only been signed for 7 days and she is already acting like a fool. We know this is just like the "Heart condition" that he had last year. She has a sickness in her own mind in which she wants her kids to be sick and dependent on her. There is NOTHING wrong with SS. 

We finally got a response from BM

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So much happened in the last few days and I really missed this site!! It looks great and I am so happy it is back up and going, thank you to everyone who was a part of it!!

To start off, SO is divorced!!! It only took 5 years and 2 months but as of Friday he is divorced! We are planning a summer wedding. *dance4*

Graduation and the Bio with No Rights

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OSS17 is graduating in a few months. In case you don't remember this kid is autistic most likely due to alcohol / drugs BM used while pregnant. BM has had no parental rights since SS was about 2 yrs old. The only visitation she gets is a couple of times a year with the psychiatrist in her office. BM probably only takes up 1 visit a year. A few months ago BM's grandparent was turning 90.

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