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Chapter 4 gave me some insight into the mind of the ex-wife. She highlighted a few rules on how to deal with ex-wives:
So our BM lives about 1.5 hours away, and we have been -slowly-planning to move up there for a bit now. It's a pretty ritzy little town and a considerable drive to/from our (DH and I) employers, so we have been saving and planning for quite some time. Our plan is to save up, get a place on SS9 bus route so we can have him 3 days and BM can have him 4 days a week and we would alternate. This would (in our state) drastically lower if not negate the need for child support, as each parent would be responsible for SS 1/2 the time. Or as damn near close as possile.
I can't belive it actually I almost fainted. I willstart at the begining we get SD6 everyother week in the summer so DH picked her up on Friday and everything was fine until bedtime on Sunday she started crying (I have noticed this getting more frequent when she has to go to bed or do something she doesn't want to do) I let her dad deal with her I was getting BS6 in bed. So he lets her call her Mom because that is what she says is wrong she misses her mom, so no big deal call her and all is better (hey I am a bio mom to so I understand homesick) Anywya she calms down and goes off to bed.
Sorry ya'll. I havent posted in a couple months because I've been so busy teaching, moving, and having my wedding, that everything else had to be put on a back burner for a while. The latest "incident" involving BM - DH and I were just married one week ago on 7/7/07. Today we received in the mail, a Photo CD from Their wedding 8 years ago with a note saying that she "ran across it" while unpacking some boxes and thought that he may want it. Also included was a piece of notebook paper with the date 7/7/07 written on the top.
On a completely unrelated front, I've been informed that I am arrogant at work. That has me kinda down. But on to the reason why I'm here! BM came and picked up SS to take him to an undisclosed doctor's appointment this morning. When she got back, she said that they had gone to the dentist and everything was fine. SS confirmed that he had been to the dentist. Let's just say that it was pretty obvious that SS didn't go to the dentist. Later this evening, our DCS worker came over.
I can't stand it. BM admitted today that the reason she won't change the custody schedule is because she wants DH and me to LIKE HER. She wants validation that she is a good parent, and she wants to be "friends" and worry over every little thing ALL THE TIME, so without it she's denying the kids equal time with their dad!!
When DH pointed this out, she said "yes, that's true, put yourselves in my shoes, would you want your kids to be with someone that doesn't like you."
Have a question.....my DH got custody of his son last year, then BM went on the war-path, and has been trying to get him back, she took us to court, and the judge was/ is considering it, saying to us that the order was only temp.... Well SS has been wanting to go back to BM anyway...to many rules at our home, BM has done a good "brainwash" job on him as well..so he's been tough to live with lately...he's 13, tough age, and has been subjected to alot of drama. My DH is supposed to go to court on Aug 9- for the judge to tell us where SS is going to live...
I can't believe it.
I will spare you all of the drama caused of the fight between DK & her Brother. After 3 months of quietness. Our phones rang off the hook from ALL of them, day in and day out, since last Sunday at Midnight.
My head was spining, but I'm O.K. So is BF.
Sometimes I wonder why I selected a man that was so previously abused by another woman, why did I take on the emotional baggage. Sure my dh is a great looking guy, who has a heart of gold, except that is towards his wife. Why is it that when a man finally finds a woman that has done nothing but seriously stand by his side during numerous court hearings, battled with in-laws, and helped him run a business w/o asking anything in return, why is it that a man still can not learn to trust again?