My SD is a sneaky little liar. We have repetedly told her NO DRESSES TO SCHOOL IN WINTER!!! It is cold out. But what does she do? She sneaks her dress out of the house in her backpack, AGAIN, and changes at school.I figured the last time she got caught and grounded she would clue in...but NO!
I've had it. I don't know what to do. We constantly catch her in lies.
She's like a pi**ed off dog that pees on the floor when your gone. If she doesn't get something she goes and does something to make us mad.
Our rules don't matter. The punishments don't matter.

My Valentine's Day has already started out right - My fiance went outside to get one of my gifts from the car. On the first step he slipped and landed in a snowbank. He put his hand out to stop his fall and was up to his shoulders in snow. He said that some guy was walking on the sidewalk directly in front of the house when he bit it and laughed! Well, as soon as I saw him all snow covered just trying to get a present for me, I laughed too. Then he showed me where he fell - there are 5 perfect finger holes in the snow. That is the best start to any Valentine's Day I have ever had.

So we're having the fSKIDS for 5 days and I am already feeling down. It's just little small things that make me upset. Anyway, to get to the point, we're getting ready to eat dinner, BF and fSS are down stairs already and I was left with fSD upstairs because she was still watching a movie. So I tell her that she can watch the movie down stairs and she starts a small tantrum like she sometimes does with me and BF and starts saying stuff like "No!", "I don't have to listen", "Leave me alone", "I don't like you" but tonight it was different.

I am always amazed at the new ways that BM continues to show her childishness and to the levels she will stoop to play her mind games with her own children.