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Perhaps a reminder to all of us...on trolling

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Submitted by overit2 on Tue, 08/09/2011 - 10:52am

Thought this quite informative link might help remind us to stay protected on these forums. I think many forums are susceptible-but given the nature of this board I think we are even more so some times. So-I will try to follow the advise of this link myself-and please read when you have a moment-it's VERY informative.

http://ubuntuforums.org/showthread.php?p=1032102

At 10...isn't it too young for highlights, shaving and skimpy clothing???

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Submitted by overit2 on Thu, 07/21/2011 - 10:29am

Ok-so heard that SD got highlights yesterday -which bf couldn't help himself but comment that even if it looked nice-she now looked even MORE like her mother (who gets her hair highlighted once a month-vs my once a year) and that she was too young to get them.

For a change-had a great week and weekend!

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Submitted by overit2 on Mon, 07/18/2011 - 3:52pm

AHHHHH...what a good week! My kids flew out of town to visit my brother and wife and cousins Mon and came back Fri. They had a BLAST! I was so happy for them because I haven't been able to afford a vacation w/them this summer, and my SIL and brother MORE then made up for it. So I had some super duper excited kids and I also had a "week off" of mom duties which was needed as I was bordering breakdown lol.

Is anyone in therapy to deal with your feelings of "stephell"?

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Submitted by overit2 on Wed, 07/06/2011 - 10:07am

The last time I went to therapy was when I was married-about a year or so prior to my divorce. It helped me recognize the abuse and propelled me out of there. I'm thinking it might help me get through this difficult time and decide if this the life for me. Or at least to better cope w/my feelings.

I'm tired of the unfairness and I'm NOT picking up anyone's slack

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Submitted by overit2 on Tue, 06/28/2011 - 11:04am

So, BF and I had a great weekend to ourselves, a great time really. LOTS of loving, we did gardening, went out...had a marathon lol all around just refreshing as it always is.

So Sunday my boys come back as usual-still a good evening, we all watched a movie together, had dinner, etc.

"I realized kids would fight like any siblings do, but I never realized the emotion I would feel behind it."

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Submitted by overit2 on Fri, 06/24/2011 - 1:54pm

Mazzy-I hope you dont' mind I quoted you on this to start my blog. But I would LOVE to discuss this issue more with other bio-moms who experience fighting between steps. Your statement shook me because it's exactly how I feel-it's hard to describe. At first I tried to say "all siblings fight" or "they are learnign pecking order" or "she's jealous of the boys stability"...but the strong emotions that go behind it when she hits one of them or evern roughhouses...vs how I feel when my own two boys go at it (and they do, both roughhousing and fighting)-it's hard to describe.

OMG-those legal forums!!

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Submitted by overit2 on Wed, 06/22/2011 - 9:26am

Ok-seriously...wth?? I read a post on here about that forum not long ago here-but didn't know which one they were talking of. I posed a question (as anonymous-which is supposedly a nono) and you should have SEEN the psycho bm's out of the woodwork, not answering legal questions either at all.

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