It came out, all of it, seriously gals it was like when you throw up and there's absolutely NO way to stop it from coming out? That was me...i could NOT hold it in anymore. So much was said...he heard me out, but of course felt attacked.

Ok-so see my exh has this history since we've been divorced of thinking HE can control my schedule/plans and have me constantly hanging by not giving a determined yes/no, time/date of plans with kids. For YEARS it's been up in the air whether he will see them, whether it will be Fri or Sat, whther it will be 10am or 12 noon or 6pm on Sat. He never does take the 2-4 weeks of summer he's "granted"...nor any other spring break/winter holiday, etc..on ocassion he'll keep them an extra day if a holiday falls on Monday.

I'm not a gloom/doom gal but ladies, watch your surroundings everywhere!! This morning my boss's wife was carjacked at a target w/her young daughter. She escaped through the other side w/her child unharmed and the guy took off w/the car. It was very scary...he's not back still. We had another one last night also-times are tough and crime increases. PLEASE stay aware of your surroundings at all times, be extra vigilant. I know these things happen but plain daylight at a target parking lot and it's not a very bad area either.

I'm currently reading this book and it's been great so far. But even though the preface/intro talks about how she worked it out and has a happy home now-the whole book has an undertone if you may----of negativity. Or maybe it's because we're reading ugly feelings of women that mimic our own and it doesn't feel good.

It's also been a relief to know the bad/ugly feelings we barely speak of exist for other women also.