I knew once i saw previews of him having two daughters i may roll my eyes at the movie lol.

Has anyone seen it? Overall it's a touching film w/out TOO much tears and some funny parts thrown in.

I couldn't help but wonder -and ALMOST said out loud-I pity the fool that marrys that man after the wife dies lol.

I could just envision the pain and anguish she would endure.

BEcause of the situation of the odler daughter telling him about comatose moms affair-he immediately turns to her for comfort and her as a confidant/partner with him.

I've been with my company a long time, worked in all kinds of different departments. About 3 years ago I had a decent position and got displaced because of yet another re-organization.

In order to stay employed I took a job well beneath my qualifications and paygrade as an admin assistant but did not take a pay CUT luckily. I figured I could work my way back in quick-and pretty much I did. W/in a year I was promoted/raise and just 2 months ago received another promotion and raise.

Ok so the funny in me-(AND yes I am religious also) was thinking, maybe the reason God taught against divorce PARTICULARLY to men in the Bible....was because he knew what stepHELL meant lol?

I mean I think it IS damaging regardless to seperate a union that is supposed to be for life-but it's more the AFTER effect and STEPHELL that comes later that is the bigger issue it seems?

YOu know, he tells me that he agrees with my advice most of the time but then he doesn't do it my way because 'insert stupid reason' when it comes to sd and discipline, etc.

I keep trying to tell him that this crap him and bm do about putting sd in the middle of scheduling visitation and stuff HAS to stop. Not only does she learn to believe she's in control of it-it adds to the adult spousal status, she learns to manipulate to get her way...above ALL of this it just not fair to her because its TOO MUCH DAMN PRESSURE for a CHILD to handle.